Long day working for both of us. Back to back meetings all day for me and rushing to even fit in a wee during the day. After work I cooked dinner - I really fancied a “proper” dinner as was cold and did sausages, veg and proper gravy. After dinner he offered to bath the dog as she had been itching like mad despite having her regular treatments, which was helpful whilst I cleaned up the kitchen, loaded the dishwasher and some more washing up - as quite a lot that couldn’t go in the dishwasher. I offered a cup of tea and prepped that. He didn’t want any dessert and I had some cream and meringues to use up so made myself a quick pud and sat down with my pud and book whilst he was still bathing the dog. He then shouted downstairs for me to come and get the hairdryer out. I called up - it’s where it usually is - he shouted back down not sure what then shouted don’t worry - so I stayed down. I had no more than 10 mins on my own just having a brief moment. He came back down then complained that I hadn’t even bothered to help him with the dog/hairdryer and instead had chosen to sit and read a book - how dare I! I was furious and said don’t put that guilt on me - I’ve not stopped all day and I was having 10 mins eating a pudding you didn’t want! Still humpy about it and so is he. Was I being unreasonable?