Lord where to start...my eldest son and stepdaughter go to scouts, my youngest goes to cubs. DS2 had been struggling with cubs and has recently been diagnosed with ADHD. Because of this my ex husband has been going along to cubs with him as a parent helper.
DS2 has now decided that he doesn't want to go to cubs anymore but still wants to spend time with his dad. ExH has suggested that he go along to help out with scouts instead so he can see DS2 in between finishing work and going to scouts.
There was talk recently that they might have to close a scout pack because there weren't enough helpers so his offer with be accepted most gratefully.
Anyway 'D'H has hit the roof saying that he's not having exH being responsible for his daughter at scouts. He's going to speak to the scout leader 'before exH gets in' is apparently going to go round and see him imminently and seemed enraged when I just said that was up to him.
Honestly his jealousy of exH is ridiculous but I don't know if that's clouding my judgement and he's perfectly reasonable in this.