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To think councils should move people to smaller properties when kids move out?

417 replies

Faithin · 27/09/2022 16:20

There's a huge lack of 3 bedroom social housing where I live (and everywhere I think?)
a lot of the people living in the 3 bed places are usually just 1 or 2 adults as the kids have grown up and moved out. Meanwhile there's lots of young families overcrowded in 1 and 2 bed flats with no garden etc
aibu to think those that actually need the space should be in the houses and those who don't should be made to downsize?
as the waiting list is so long, what tends to happen is peoples children are in their teens by the time they are moved into a 3 bed property, the grow up and leave within a couple of years and the parents stay, so the vast majority are under-occupied.

OP posts:
lannistunut · 27/09/2022 16:52

FarmerRefuted · 27/09/2022 16:50

Why don't you direct your anger at the government who allowed, and are still allowing, the selling off of social housing stock and who are doing the sum total of Jack fucking shit to address housing issues?

Exactly this.

MadeInChorley · 27/09/2022 16:52

It’s their home. They are settled and comfortable and they will likely get less space for more money. Plus the hassle of moving house, getting rid of half your possessions to fit and often a sentimental attachment to a home where you brought up your family. People don’t want to move away from existing support networks of neighbours and family and often. Councils do offer incentives to downsize, but if they are happy, then effectively the Council would have to evict them.

Look, it’s not even about Council tenants - you get the same discussions about elderly homeowners sitting in 4 bedroom properties with gardens, while families are desperate to move into larger homes. Same issues apply.

SpinningFloppa · 27/09/2022 16:52

I don’t know where people live but in my part of London there are loads of 1 bed flats way more than 2/3/4 beds significantly more!

Circleoflife2057 · 27/09/2022 16:52

Instead of forcing people out of their home the government should increase the supply of social housing. You are looking at the problem from the wrong angle and blaming the wrong people. The government has sold off council houses and doesn't build enough new ones with an increasing population so demand outstrips supply.

Willowswave · 27/09/2022 16:52

Yanbu. It’s unethical that familes with young children are housed in tiny 1-2 bed flats while 3 bed houses have one occupant.

I get that people may orefer to stay in the 3 bed inatead of downsizing. Who wouldn’t?! But it isn’t their house, it’s the taxpayer’s house and it should be lent to whoever needs it most, not given to one person for life.

Don’t even get me started on the huge profits some people make with ‘right to buy’.

Mrsjayy · 27/09/2022 16:54

pompei8309 · 27/09/2022 16:29

BigFatLiar- no, it’s not their home , they’re tenants in council/housing association accommodation

What is wrong with you of course it is their home!

Ahbisto · 27/09/2022 16:55

I think there is a lot of emotion tied to this and that’s why tenancies for life are being scaled out. I personally believe social housing should be reviewed annually as to the need and if the need no longer exists then end the tenancy And move to either a smaller property or to a private rental if income has increased past the level you’d currently be eligible/

my opinion is they should be there to fill a need for as long as it is an actual need/

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 27/09/2022 16:55

Well there are some quite nice 1/2 bed flats in this area with gardens. I lived in one myself at one point with 2 dc.

I'll quite happily move into one like that again when the dc leave home. I'll not go into some tower block though or somewhere with no outdoor space

Pengwinn · 27/09/2022 16:56

No, it's their home. My aunt lives in social housing in a 2 bed, her DS has moved out but has complex mental health issues so stays over often. She's also paid in rent over the years circa £210k which is much more than the house is worth on the market even with repairs included, if she had been fortunate enough to be able to club together a deposit years ago she would happily own the family home for substantially less than she's actually paid and be able to live in it for life and her son get money once it sold. As is that's not the case.

Faithin · 27/09/2022 16:56

feellikeanalien · 27/09/2022 16:50

There are quite a few people on MN who really don't like those on benefits or in social housing.

As for the comment that people who rent social housing are not entitled to call where they live their home, well I think I've heard it all now.

What a nasty society we are becoming.

i certainly don't hate those people as I am one of them, I live in social housing myself and receive benefits as I am a single parent with a disabled child

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Sisiwawa · 27/09/2022 16:57

Yes, people's needs should be assessed every 5 years, I know people that got houses or flats 20 or 30 years ago when they needed them, now they are all earning good money and have 2nd houses abroad, its rife but obviously kept quiet. They could afford to now rent privately. It's a micky take

Mrsjayy · 27/09/2022 16:58

I think my parents would benefit from a smaller house I suggested putting in for the new build but they like their home so that's where they will be stay.

MessyBunPersonified · 27/09/2022 16:58

Ahbisto · 27/09/2022 16:55

I think there is a lot of emotion tied to this and that’s why tenancies for life are being scaled out. I personally believe social housing should be reviewed annually as to the need and if the need no longer exists then end the tenancy And move to either a smaller property or to a private rental if income has increased past the level you’d currently be eligible/

my opinion is they should be there to fill a need for as long as it is an actual need/

What a great idea, that will definitely encourage people to better themselves 👍 🙄

If I were to take a job with a pay just over the threshold which would then double my living costs, I just wouldn't take the job, it wouldn't be viable.

Voila567 · 27/09/2022 16:58

I agree

Pengwinn · 27/09/2022 16:58

Ahbisto · 27/09/2022 16:55

I think there is a lot of emotion tied to this and that’s why tenancies for life are being scaled out. I personally believe social housing should be reviewed annually as to the need and if the need no longer exists then end the tenancy And move to either a smaller property or to a private rental if income has increased past the level you’d currently be eligible/

my opinion is they should be there to fill a need for as long as it is an actual need/

The amount it would cost to set up a system and conduct annual reviews would be eye watering, not to mention when we look at other judgements made as part of gov initiatives it would undoubtedly be very unfair. Depending where you live there aren't actually always a tonne of 1 or 2 bed properties, there are hardly any here and the wait list for a one bed is longer than for a family home. The better thing surely would be for the gov to actually address the mess that is housing.

x2boys · 27/09/2022 17:00

Ahbisto · 27/09/2022 16:55

I think there is a lot of emotion tied to this and that’s why tenancies for life are being scaled out. I personally believe social housing should be reviewed annually as to the need and if the need no longer exists then end the tenancy And move to either a smaller property or to a private rental if income has increased past the level you’d currently be eligible/

my opinion is they should be there to fill a need for as long as it is an actual need/

How do you suggest they renew tenancies annually ,?have you a idea of the time and money that would take?

Bideshi · 27/09/2022 17:01

Yeah good idea. Worked well in the Soviet Union and allocated housing works efficiently in China now. Probably equally good in North Korea if only we knew.

Threadkillacilla · 27/09/2022 17:01

You are overlooking the fact that some people can never have a mortgage or own a hom e. They shouldn't be forced to be transient.

OhmygodDont · 27/09/2022 17:02

They need to build more three beds. But also rather then evicting people from the three beds once they only need one or two why not just put the rent to market value rather than the normal lower rents proving there is someone smaller available for them.

Its Encouragement to move or if they don’t want to, ring fence the money towards building more three bedroom houses.

willithappen · 27/09/2022 17:02

Yes, let's give tenants a shell of a property, have them floor and decorate it, purchase furniture to fit that house and then decide to turf everyone out annually and start again. Very smart

feellikeanalien · 27/09/2022 17:03

Faithin · 27/09/2022 16:56

i certainly don't hate those people as I am one of them, I live in social housing myself and receive benefits as I am a single parent with a disabled child

I wasn't referring to you OP. I just get the feeling that there are a lot of people on here who think that people in social housing have no right to family life and they do tend to come out on threads like this.

The problem is that private rental is so prohibitive that once people get social housing they are able to have a bit of stability in their lives and some people seem to resent this.

The reality is that there is not enough social housing, the private rental market is appalling and the housing market even worse. Until something is done about this things will only get worse.

DuckBilledFattypus · 27/09/2022 17:03

The answer is to free up housing stock such as Airbnb. Vast amounts of housing is being taken out of the housing pool for people wanting to make a quick buck. The answer is not to throw older people out of their homes.

OhmygodDont · 27/09/2022 17:03

Threadkillacilla · 27/09/2022 17:01

You are overlooking the fact that some people can never have a mortgage or own a hom e. They shouldn't be forced to be transient.

That goes for private tenants too. Can be forced to move for many reasons. Picking up their whole lives and having to move to the other side of cities because the landlord wants to sell or move back in.

Ahbisto · 27/09/2022 17:03

Ok maybe not annually but every two years or five years, whatever the,point remains. For me it should not be for life, but based on current need.

sure there will be some folks who don’t want to better themselves to keep their council house.but I don’t believe that’s the majority and if your kids grow up then you don’t need three bed anymore if just a couple. And I grew up council and my parents clung on to their three bed. They could also have afforded a one bed private rent.

Needmorelego · 27/09/2022 17:04

@Faithin are all the flats in your block actually still 'council' flats? I live in a 1950s council block. 28 flats - only about 6 are still council owned. The rest were bought up due to Right to Buy. Some the owners live in them, some are privately rented out (we are in one of those). A lot of people assume I live in a 'council flat' but I don't - I live in a private rental.
Your neighbours might be crammed into small flats but it do you know if they are all actually council flats?

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