@Chevyimpala67
I agree with you disagreeing with me - to an extent!
People really did suffer, mentally and emotionally. I'd say the vast majority did, myself included despite extreme financial prudence on my part.
And, yes, I've witnessed/heard about the same heartbreaking scenarios as you described. However, imo, although the stress, worry, fear were endemic, the actual 'casualties' (for want of a better word) were far and away the minority.
The vast majority, somehow, managed to 'survive' - perhaps not heroically, perhaps not without having to borrow from family etc., but they did survive with the roof over their head intact.
Negative equity is a whole other matter but that 'only' becomes an issue if you 'have' to sell. I'm sure our place went into negative equity at one point but I did not lose sleep over that as I did when worrying about making the actual mortgage payments to allow us to keep our home. Nor did negative equity impact on my fear sensors in the same way the prospect of redundancy did.
I just hope it didn't come across that I was flippant/uncaring about the casualties at that time, nor about the (undoubted) casualties about to come.
The overall point I wanted to make was the stress, worry, emotional turmoil are identical irrespective of the sums/situations involved.
Also, I hope people are much more open these days about financial difficulties and know when and where to seek help/support.