My sil hates me like a lot and I have no clue what I can do about it anymore. My oh has spoke to her about it (she thinks I’ve changed him and brought him down and that I use him for money) and she said she’d give me another chance which I’ve obviously somehow mucked up because she still really dislikes me. I’ve been nothing but nice and civil to her and now it’s just making me feel awful. She’s 8 years older than us and while she’s never been out and out nasty but she’s never been warm welcoming and kind. She won’t ever say anything directly to me regarding how much she dislikes me because his mum would have her for it but it’s making me not want to go see his mum with him and stay with her as she still lives at home and she makes me feel really uncomfortable (he also knows this).
I’m at a loose end now and don’t know what to do for the best up until now I’ve just continued being nice and civil and have tried to not let it get to me but Im not doing very well at that.
I just need advice and help