My neighbour let me borrow her car as mines in the garage, I get on really well with her and we have a good relationship
I got home and noticed a scuff on the bumper, I don't know if it was already there but I'm pretty sure it wasn't. It's not a bad scuff.
If I did it, it would've been today when I pulled in on a country lane to let other cars pass.
The wheels were super muddy when I got back on that side so I washed them.
The neighbours have a ring camera so might have seen me inspect the scuff
It really isn't a bad scuff but I feel so bad cos she was doing me a favour.
OH said just to wait and see what she says. She will notice it as she washes her car by hand.
It's an old car and I don't think the scuff will bother her much, more so her husband or more so that she did me a favour and i scuffed it.
I have OCD so it might not even have been me but I'm pretty sure it was. I didn't feel it but it looks fresh.
AIBU : tell her now even if it wasn't me and offer to fix it
YANBU: might not have been me anyway and she might not notice and if she did then say something