This post isn't to undermine anyone who thinks it's tough but I'm asking because I am considering it in the coming months and despite doing research I can't see what makes it so tough?
Im not saying it isn't tough btw but genuinely wanting to know what makes it so hard?
Im not talking about the emotional aspect of it and the possibility of it not working as I know about that but the logistics of it - is it painful? Ignoring the emotional aspect what makes it so hard?
Thanks in advanced
AIBU?
To wonder why IVF is often referred to as 'gruelling'
daysayso · 26/09/2022 14:41
Decaffe · 26/09/2022 17:57
So, @daysayso, are you coming back to the thread?
Do you have anything to say to the countless posters who have shared such deeply personal (and, in some cases, traumatic) experiences?
caffelattetogo · 26/09/2022 14:56
Mostly it's emotionally hard, but there are physical hardships too. The medications are hard on your body, with a medically induced menopause followed by multiple injections each day to make your follicles go into overdrive, so your ovaries go from the size of an almond to the size of an orange in two weeks. Then you have lots of hospital visits for scans (mine were daily for a while). Then you have egg retrieval, usually under heavy sedation. Then you hope the embryos can go back in, and have the transfer, followed by the dreaded 2 week wait.
It is hard, but it's also massively worth it if it works. I'd do it all again in a heartbeat, but it was definitely gruelling.
Decaffe · 26/09/2022 17:57
So, @daysayso, are you coming back to the thread?
Do you have anything to say to the countless posters who have shared such deeply personal (and, in some cases, traumatic) experiences?
candycaneframe · 26/09/2022 15:02
She should have been put under for collection.
DomesticBlisters · 26/09/2022 15:01
What everyone else said, plus, my wife felt it every single time the needle went in and out at egg collection. The pain relief barely worked so she felt the needle and everything.
Don't go into it thinking it's going to be a pain free walk in the park. It probably won't be and if it is then you're lucky.
NCFT0922 · 26/09/2022 16:11
@daysayso my cousin is on her 9th year and probably in excess of £100k. Are you prepared for the possibility of that?
IVFGotThis05 · 26/09/2022 14:48
It's not always physically hard... but you do have to do injections, sometimes two different sets, the medication your given can give you terrible side effects and the egg collection can sometimes be painful. It's all dependant. But yes, usually when people are discussing their journey with IVF it's most likely the emotional aspect that is the hardest. Oh and the wait !!! The wait for everything is the hard part too.
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