Mumsnet Logo
My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

AIBU?

To wonder how much of the Queen and Prince Phillip's long lives were down to wealth

215 replies

Feofjwonxoaks · 26/09/2022 08:02

To both live to almost 100 without dementia and in relatively good health, until the very end.
Have worked in many care homes and we have a couple of ladies who are 99/100 who are in good spirits and mentally sharp, but this is rare.
It's rare to even make it to this age but most of our residents who are

OP posts:
Report

Am I being unreasonable?

AIBU

You have one vote. All votes are anonymous.

Rushingfool · 26/09/2022 15:45

They have regular full body MRI scans and blood tests so any tiny problems are dealt with before they get big. A mini bowel polyp - whipped out straightaway; a slight dip in iron - cook whips up a load of spinach based meals; bit of an ache, physio brought in immediately. Not like the rest of us who soldier on until there's blood in the toilet bowl, or we've collapsed at work.

Report

CredibilityProblem · 26/09/2022 15:49

I think that people generally overstate the importance to longevity of eating a "perfect" diet (as opposed to a moderate and not shit one) and vastly underestimate the importance of social connectedness and activities. A reason to get up in the morning and leave the house, and people to interact with are key, over and above the basic mechanics of having someone to check up on you and help you when you need a hand with something small.

Report

gatehouseoffleet · 26/09/2022 16:33

Access to healthcare without having to worry certainly played its part in their physical health.

I think they were just lucky with regards to dementia though. That said, dementia isn't as common as we're led to believe, and it's not a given at all that everyone over the age of say 80 will get it - 1/3 I think which means 2/3 don't.

Report

zingally · 26/09/2022 16:45

Probably not the be all and end all, but likely a huge contributing factor.

Report

BMW6 · 26/09/2022 16:59

I think wealth can provide protection against ill health to an extent, BUT the primary causes of naturally long life must be down to genes and lifestyle.

The Queen never smoked, her mother rarely and Philip gave it up around the time of the Coronation.

All were into outdoor pursuits, lots of walking every day. Ate best quality food and sparingly so no obesity.

And no retirement until in their late 90's if at all.

Report

mountainsunsets · 26/09/2022 17:00

Dinoteeth · 26/09/2022 12:24

Not really, walking costs nothing.

The people who I know who made it to 80s and 90s were all walkers. None of them were wealthy.
My GF made it to 98 was a meter reader, so walked daily and loved a country walk at the weekend.

I'll also add didn't really eat processed food. Used the butcher and the fishmongers.

But lifestyle is about more than whether you go walking or not.

Stress and poverty both impact on your long-term health and can result in people not living as long.

Report

JustLyra · 26/09/2022 17:06

They had good quality food.
They had top class medical facilities for use - with no waiting times.
And they had a purpose to keep going. A lot of people go downhill after retirement if they don't find another purpose to keep going.

Also - we don't actually know that they were always in good health. There have been various hospital trips and stays over the years that we have no idea about. Given the ability to have said top class medical facilities brought to them on occasion there could have been multiple ailments that we don't know about.

Report

Dinoteeth · 26/09/2022 17:49

I think people are over estimating health care element of it.
When I think of the people who made late 80s and 90s in my own family they were generally very healthy people.

Report

JustLyra · 26/09/2022 17:51

Dinoteeth · 26/09/2022 17:49

I think people are over estimating health care element of it.
When I think of the people who made late 80s and 90s in my own family they were generally very healthy people.

I don’t think so. It’s a huge part of it.

My FIL was a very healthy man lost of his life. The fact he waited 9 months for hip replacement surgery played a major part in his going downhill.

Report

Octomore · 26/09/2022 17:54

Ahbisto · 26/09/2022 08:36

Rich folks get cancer, dementia, heart attacks, strokes just like everyone else. Illness doesn’t look at your Wallet first.

And yet, despite this, socio economic status is still the single most reliable indicator for predictinf both life expectancy and healthy life expectancy. The difference between the poorest and wealthiest demographics is +10years for both men and women.

At an individual level, yes, wealthy people still get ill.

But at a population level, those illnesses tend to come later in life is you're wealthy.

Report

CredibilityProblem · 26/09/2022 17:57

Rushingfool · 26/09/2022 15:45

They have regular full body MRI scans and blood tests so any tiny problems are dealt with before they get big. A mini bowel polyp - whipped out straightaway; a slight dip in iron - cook whips up a load of spinach based meals; bit of an ache, physio brought in immediately. Not like the rest of us who soldier on until there's blood in the toilet bowl, or we've collapsed at work.

Possibly, but a sizeable minority of normal people do manage to reach their late nineties in good health without that level of intervention, just by the power of genetic luck, good habits and a standard level of medical care.

Report

Octomore · 26/09/2022 18:00

CredibilityProblem · 26/09/2022 17:57

Possibly, but a sizeable minority of normal people do manage to reach their late nineties in good health without that level of intervention, just by the power of genetic luck, good habits and a standard level of medical care.

This is true, but when you look at population level statistics, it's not random. Wealth is directly and strongly correlated with health and longevity.

Report

Octomore · 26/09/2022 18:06

waterrat · 26/09/2022 08:41

People are giving illogical answers here = with answers like 'my uncle died blah blah'

Obviously wealth and longevity are linked at a SOCIETAL level - ie. individual stories are not relevant.

THe poorest parts of the UK have life expectancies way, way below the richest.

Westminster - you can live til your 80s - poorer parts of Glasgow - you can die in your 50s! Some parts of Glasgow have the same life expectancy as the gaza strip.

Well said! I feel like I'm in a parallel universe reading some of these responses.

There is so much data on this, and the pattern has been consistent over decades. The fact that the bottom half of society have significantly shorter lives (and shorter years of health) is something people should be really fucking angry about. It's frustrating to hear people pretending it's all just genes and good choices.

Report

Mrsfussypants1 · 26/09/2022 18:17

Both my grandparents and great grandparents lived till their late 90s. They had hard lives and didn't have any health issues like dementia, they didn't go into care homes, and only my great gran had a home carer a couple of times a week. Grandads (both sides) smoked and like pp also worked down the pits (miners). What they did have was better health care, doctors that back in the day would visit at home if needed. They also had nhs dentists. My grandad only died 10 years ago and grandma 6mnths later, they lived long healthy lives. Not sure how they'd fare now with it being a minfield getting to see a doctor and nhs dentists virtually extinct, perhaps it's the government's master plan.

Report

Dinoteeth · 26/09/2022 18:23

Glasgow also has a very high number of drug and alcohol deaths. That must bring the overall life expectancy down.
Damp and miserable weather really doesn't inspire a love of salads, so people reach for lots of junk food.

Could just be me but I can't imagine Queenie or Charlie munching a Mars Bar.

Report

Suzi888 · 26/09/2022 18:29

CredibilityProblem · 26/09/2022 08:22

If you asked for medical consensus on what to do to maximise your chance of a long healthy life you'd get the following.

Don't smoke
Inherit good genes
Maintain a healthy weight throughout your life
Exercise, a lot but not to extremes, throughout your life
Get outdoors as much as possible
Drink in moderation at most
Eat your veg and don't live on junk food
Stay socially connected and active throughout your life
Keep up with recommended doctors, dentists, opticians and audiologists appointments and screening

AFAICS they probably ticked every single box apart from drinking more than the optimum amount when younger. And yes wealth helps with a lot of them. But it's not like they lived to be 110 or something really unusual. And it's not as if the super-rich are immune to cancer or dementia: look at Steve Jobs or Margaret Thatcher.

^ Agree

A family member had cancer and spent well over £20k on private treatment. Got another six months out of it.
Unless we’re talking by extreme poverty, it’s mostly genes and lifestyle. DM is 80, she has arthritis but apart from that is currently in good health. (We think she had covid and long covid earlier this year and I was worried, she went to hospital as a day case and all was fine - in case anyone checks back to my post). She basically survives on tea and toast, fish and chips, egg and beans and cooked dinners. She is a bland eater. She enjoys her wine though! and used to smoke.

Report

Penguinsaregreat · 26/09/2022 18:30

Am I wrong in thinking the queen smoked? I also heard that the princess of Wales smokes, is that correct?

Report

Stationsofthecross · 26/09/2022 18:32

I think it’s very much down to luck and activity - husbands grandmother lived till 100 - and she was very fit and active - did dancing till mid 80’s, still walking in 90’s etc. One glass of wine per night etc.

Report

KingCharlespen · 26/09/2022 18:37

Pottedpalm · 26/09/2022 08:12

My parents lived to 101 (DF) and 99. Both grew up in quite poor circumstances though with access to good nutrition, both worked well into their 70s and led active lives. No wealth. I put it down to good genes, no smoking, very little processed food, keeping active and a strong faith. Plus a bit of good luck. Both had all their marbles to the end.

This has very much been my experience with elderly relatives. They may have been quite poor but lived on healthy simple food and exercised well. If they were born into similar circumstances now I doubt if their diet would be as good. The Queen Mother is probably the more interesting one in terms of how long she lived.

Report

BeanieTeen · 26/09/2022 18:37

I think it may have had some influence but certainly for the Queen it could just be lucky genes - her mother lived even longer than she did. I think wealth can have significant impact on life expectancy, but not to the point that you reach nearly 100. Lifestyle and a lot of luck is what that comes down to.

Report

2orangey · 26/09/2022 18:46

The Queen only outlived my Gran by a year. My Gran had a horrendous life, deprived upbringing, low paid factory work, serious mental illness, smoked for years. It is still strange to me that she lived so long. The last few years of her life were spent in a home, not knowing who or where she was, or who anyone else was, with no interest or enjoyment in anything. Pretty different from the Queen who was able to work pretty much until the end.

Report

Octomore · 26/09/2022 19:30

Unless we’re talking by extreme poverty, it’s mostly genes and lifestyle.

No, this simple isn't true. Wealth and life expectancy are directly correlated at every level, from the poorest to the richest.

Look at the graphs on that ONS data I linked above. Literally, for every decile of wealth you go up, your life expectancy and healthy life expectancy also goes up.

Report

Octomore · 26/09/2022 19:31

It's not just Glasgow either - the correlation applies to deprived areas of e.g. London too.

To wonder how much of the Queen and Prince Phillip's long lives were down to wealth
Report

Octomore · 26/09/2022 19:34

And here's the same graph for women.

Your position in the socioeconomic hierarchy is directly correlated with with your life expectancy and healthy life expectancy, and is the strongest indicator for predicting it.

The exact numbers have varied over the years, but the pattern has been consistent for as long ad the data has been collected.

To wonder how much of the Queen and Prince Phillip's long lives were down to wealth
Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

Sign up to continue reading

Mumsnet's better when you're logged in. You can customise your experience and access way more features like messaging, watch and hide threads, voting and much more.

Already signed up?