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Neighbours parcels

6 replies

Menora · 26/09/2022 07:14

I live in a street of semi’s and terraced houses. I’m a semi. There is a terrace house near to mine but not attached to me. I don’t know them, never spoken to them, don’t know what car they drive or what they look like but assume it’s a family from the stuff in the garden, which I can see if I strain my neck out of an upstairs window.

A DPD man knocked a while back and asked me to take their parcels - there were multiple big boxes and when I questioned him to ask him to ask one of the terraced houses (attached to said house) he said they had specifically nominated my house if they were not home.

I took the parcels to be neighbourly thinking it would be a small hassle but not much out of my way.

I ended up with these boxes for nearly 2 weeks. I knocked on this house every single day and no one would answer the door. I didn’t want to leave them outside in case it rained so I left a note in the end to say I would send them back to the company if they didn’t collect them and a teenager turned up a day later to take them.

My DC let another delivery in recently and the same thing has happened again. This time I just left them on their doorstep and they have gone so I assume someone was home.

AIBU to refuse these deliveries now from DPD? They take up space to store in my house, it’s not my problem the recipients don’t like answering the door, they don’t speak to me. Or am I being un-neighbourly?

OP posts:
Quitelikeacatslife · 26/09/2022 07:17

Try and catch them when they are in and say I think there is a mistake on the default safe place as you can't take parcels in

DriveMeCrazy1974 · 26/09/2022 07:26

I think it's the height of rudeness when neighbours nominate you to be a default address for the delivery driver to leave a parcel with, without asking you if that's OK. We live in a block of flats and it was brought to my attention that there was a note on the upstairs neighbour's door saying to leave items with me.
I spent about a year telling various delivery drivers that I didn't take in parcels.
I don't care if it's not neighbourly, just because I work from home, doesn't mean I should take in your parcels -arrange delivery for when you're home. I'm not the Post Office!
Maybe put a note on your door stating that you don't take in parcels for other people?

Hellodarknessmyoldpal · 26/09/2022 07:27

Just say no to the delivery service. Even if they have nominated you that doesn't trump your right to refuse to take them in.

iratepirate · 26/09/2022 07:28

I check which neighbours of someone asks to leave a parcel. We have neighbours who have done this to us and I refuse to take parcels in for them any longer. I’m not a collection point and I don’t even know them. Had they asked, I might have considered it, but tbh I think the assumption is just rude.

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 26/09/2022 07:31

You don’t have to speak to them about it; they haven’t done you that courtesy. Just refuse to take parcels in🤷‍♀️

Whoopsies · 26/09/2022 07:33

I had the same problem with a neighbour (although I don't think he ever specified to leave them with me, I was just next door). I just started saying "sorry, I can't take it, they never come to get them off me" and the delivery man was always understanding.

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