My partner of 12years for the past year constantly vspeaks to me like I'm something he's stood in. I'm well aware the things he says to me are verbal abuse and I know deep down i need to leave this relationship but I just don't know how financially I can afford to rent somewhere for myself and my daughter aswell
As continue to pay my half of the mortgage until the house sold, it would have to go to court for a forced sale as he refuses to put the house up for sale. We have always argued like a normal couple but the stuff he says to me and calls me over the past year or has gotten worse and this is infront of my 2yr old daughter im literally sick of it I don't want her thinking it is alright for a man to speak to her in that way or the damage it is causing. he will call me things like a sket, tramp, a ffing idiot, he will say things like are you fffing thick. Tonight for instance we sat down at the dining room table to have tea my 2year started paddying because she wanted something I said she couldn't have. He put his knife and fork down and said oh I can't be doing with this everytime we have tea. (we have tea togeather 2 nights a week as he works evenings) I completely ignored his comment and carried on eating my tea ( I couldn't be arsed it's the same everytime he's home) he then turned round to me and said who the ff are you rolling your eyes at, I never rolled my eyed, I said this to him. Yes you fffing did, I again told him I never rolled my eyes. We then had cross words and he started screaming and shouting at the top of his lungs and horlang all sorts of verbal abuse at me. I'm so fed up of being spoken to in this way and disrespected. Last year his sister died unexpectedly and ever since then this is how he's been towards me, he flys of the handle at the slightest thing. I've tried to approach him about it but he just can't see how he's being and will gaslights the situation by saying things like oh it's always me isn't it never you. I just feel so stuck at the minute I can't keep putting up with this and don't want my daughter to be brought up around this but I financially can not afford to pay rent and a mortgage at the same time.