@CrystalCoco
Excellent post and one I could have almost written
As I've said my parents, dad was worth around the million but as he remairred when I was 21 when mum died, just before he died years ago he wanted to leave me something I said thanks but no dad as you have a new family.
My wifes family worth a mill or so because of our culture most old timers leave everything for their son/s. We were happy with that as we have always stood on our own two feet
We have worked hard non of the family has ever lived in a rented property we rarely use public transport other than children at times going to their HQ's in central London . We gifted between our kids recently around 500k they did not want it all work all have a property to live in and or BTL
We still have money and property and like most pay taxes on it again and again CGT etc etc on top of PAYE, taxes, NI etc etc
Why should our prudent spending working hard always support those that are or had the capacity to work but could never be bothered to be prudent with their money EG not live hand to mouth and live off credit cards?
I'm not referring to those that worked and lost job/income via ill health but the millions who by presnets, go on hols, buy phones, sky cars etc on credit - why buy a car for 40k and repay 60k when you could save up and not pay interest
Having said that, I have always found that those with hardly anything in their names will always support taxing not just the rich but ordinary people who have worked hard and spent and saved wisely as they want to jsut support their kids, grandkids and ensure they are not a burden on the state when they retire so thos that really need help can get it.