DC is dyslexic - extremely able in maths but spelling, reading comprehension and handwriting are all difficult (verbal ability high but when putting pen to paper results are average, or just below average).
We are thinking about applying to some academic schools (and less selective ones too). IQ / standardised scores are generally 120-125 but this is skewed towards maths, so for example maths might be 142 and English around 105-110.
Did you DC get extra time for entrance exams and gain a place? Or did they gain a place without extra time in exams? If they were granted extra time do you think the SEN went against them in the selection process because these schools want the DC who are easier to teach? If your DC are at a selective school with dyslexia how are they coping and what is the support like? Obviously we have spoken to SEN departments of various schools but I am hoping to hear from others with actual experience of this. We are torn about whether to go for 'reach' schools and hope DC is able to work to their potential as they get older, or go with a softly selective school that could be more comfortable.