Completely my own fault really and I'm kicking myself 🙁 just wondering if I'm being stupidly paranoid and need to chill or whether to be a bit on guard..
Walking through town with dd (6 months). Woman stops me and starts talking about dd (how old is she? What's her name?) since having dd this happens quite often and I've never felt dodgy about it. The woman opens her phone and shows me pictures of her granddaughter, again not that unusual. Woman asks me if she's my first and (as usual) I say no, I've got an older dd whose 11 so a big gap! Then she asks if I live around here and I say yes, we live in ' name of estate' (I'm wondering if she's new to the area and planning to ask anything about the area), then she asks where my older dd goes to school. I stupidly don't think as I'm a bit caught off guard and bloody tell her 😩. She doesn't say much more after this really, just a few pleasantries and then 'have a nice walk' and goodbye. I spend my entire walk thinking of terrible scenarios and wondering wtf I was thinking answering with the actual school name. It literally came out of my mouth and I regretted it instantly and thought why didn't I name a different school?!
I think I felt a little more weird because the woman literally just stopped me in the street while I was walking - usually when someone strikes up conversation about dd2 it's in a cafe or shop or something. She also kept saying 'sorry if I'm bothering you' and I felt a little bit like maybe she was lonely or something? But yeah, now I feel like an absolute idiot (hopefully if there's ever a next time I will have learnt from it and not answer such a question!) and I can't tell if I'm being really paranoid or it's something that's reasonable to feel weird about?