No judgement please.
I work full time in the civil service and I have around 9K worth of debt in my own name consisting of overdrafts, credit cards/payment plans like very/Klarna and a loan. I’ve always been relatively on top of repayments but in the last 3 months or so I’m really struggling to keep up with the repayments of it all and have defaulted on some credit card and Klarna repayments ultimately making everything worse.
I’ve been getting so anxious for a while but have stupidly buried my head. Today I decided enough was enough and spoke to a free debt advice service who went through my options. I’m a homeowner with a joint mortgage, living with DP, 1 DS, and apparently my options are limited unless I wanted to risk our house (which I obviously don’t want to do! Bankruptcy seems far too extreme). They also said a debt management plan would mean I’d be paying back for around 15-20 years with what I can afford!
They have suggested an IVA and although I know my credit score will be wrecked for a few years, and my DP will likely not be happy about it - (yet to talk to him as I don’t want an argument), I’m failing to see what other options I have? I’m just worried about when we need to get a new mortgage after our fixed rate ends (in around 2 years) and if it will effect DP in any way or mean anything negative for the mortgage. I’m very nervous and find it all very daunting.
can you give me your experiences please?
thanks!