Autistic Dd has the year 6 residential trip coming up. It's three days and two nights away. It's to an activity centre in the new forest and I know she will hate it. Plus being away from home and friendship issues in the class. I'm not sending her, seems like she is the only one not going. She's upset today as everyone is the class is talking excitedly about it and she feels so left out but I know she will feel so miserable if she goes. Have I done the right thing?
AIBU?
lollipoprainbow · 22/09/2022 18:18
Once she heard all her the class talking about it she wanted to go, but I know her so well and I won't be there to pick up the pieces when the friendships all go wrong as they do frequently. I explained to her and she agrees she doesn't want to go.
sparepantsandtoothbrush · 22/09/2022 18:23
So you didn't even ask her and then, when she decided maybe she wanted to go, you told her it would be shit and she'd hate it?
lollipoprainbow · 22/09/2022 18:18
Once she heard all her the class talking about it she wanted to go, but I know her so well and I won't be there to pick up the pieces when the friendships all go wrong as they do frequently. I explained to her and she agrees she doesn't want to go.
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