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New job encouragement. Can I do it??

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PreferAnimals · 22/09/2022 09:17

I started a new office job yesterday. I was bombarded by training of new packages/processes/logins and passwords. My brain is frazzled 🤯. It all seemed sooo complex. I'm in my 40s and the younger one's pick up all these computer processes so quickly, but I just stared at the screen feeling anxious and stressed. I'm doubting myself. It's a different line of work to what I've done before (medical environment)

Has anyone else felt this way after starting a new job? I will obviously give it time, but I came home feeling like crying I was so worried. On the plus side everyone seemed so lovely that worked there, so that's a bonus 😀

Just wondering if anyone else has felt anxious after starting a new job - thinking there's no way they can do it?

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hashbrownsandwich · 22/09/2022 09:28

I work in a medical NHS setting and honestly only 50% of employees stay. The fact is unfortunately we have so many logins and processes that it is overwhelming to begin with.

PreferAnimals · 22/09/2022 09:43

hashbrownsandwich · 22/09/2022 09:28

I work in a medical NHS setting and honestly only 50% of employees stay. The fact is unfortunately we have so many logins and processes that it is overwhelming to begin with.

It certainly is overwhelming! I'm just hoping if I keep at it, it will eventually start to sink in. I guess repetition is key

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hashbrownsandwich · 22/09/2022 10:05

Honestly, I can only go by my own experience which is the first day I was thinking 'why do we have so many different systems which each require different logins etc'. It's so antiquated.
I'm glad I stuck with it now though as I'm building a career there.
Maybe give it a bit longer and see how you go?

GetOffTheRoof · 22/09/2022 10:15

Get a notebook. It's very normal to need to make notes for any new job, so just embrace it.

I have 40+ logins for work and they are all in the back of my notebook - not the actual password but I use three variations then numbers then an exclamation mark, so I can write:

  • Venus - one13!
  • Pluto - two11@PreferAnimals
GetOffTheRoof · 22/09/2022 10:19

Gah, posted too soon! So it runs:

  • programme name - password 1/2/3, number, variation on a punctuation mark

Passwords stay in my head.

Shoxfordian · 22/09/2022 10:21

Let’s hope you don’t lose your laptop and notebook with that unbreakable code 🙄

Redqueenheart · 22/09/2022 10:23

if that is any consolation I feel the same. Started a new job recently and the IT and induction are a bit of a mess and that is starting to put me off.

I am also being bombarded with endless meetings that all clash with one another.

I am allowing some time to settle as a new job is always overwhelming but it just does not give a good impression.

Wombat100 · 22/09/2022 10:23

This is totally normal. New jobs are overwhelming! Stick with it. Depending on the job I usually find I need about 3 months to feel comfortable with everything. Good luck :)

WaveyHair · 22/09/2022 10:27

It will take about 3 months to settle in, during which you will feel like a deer in headlights. It gets better.

Definitely take a notebook...and coloured pens.

LadyDanburysHat · 22/09/2022 10:56

Definitely normal. My last job was a new industry to me and it took me 6 months to truly settle in. The first few days in any new job just fry your brain.

My current job took 9 months as I'm working remotely so it felt even harder to learn anything.

GetOffTheRoof · 22/09/2022 12:20

Shoxfordian · 22/09/2022 10:21

Let’s hope you don’t lose your laptop and notebook with that unbreakable code 🙄

And yet you won't know what the passwords are... A mix of words and numbers, followed by the two variations.

If any business is stupid enough to have, 40+ systems, they should have a method of securing the passwords. No one can remember them in the long term.

3214StrangeDay · 22/09/2022 12:25

I agree make notes

Do not use passwords that you use outside work

3 to 6 months to get used to a new job

PeloFondo · 22/09/2022 12:35

Day 1 of my job I felt the same. I just sat there like "I can't do this"
4.5 years later in the same job and I wonder why I doubted myself Smile

HangOnToYourself · 22/09/2022 12:43

I started a new job 3 weeks ago and I'm still in hyper anxiety mode. I felt ok last week but it's been a crazy amount of pressure to deliver in such a short space of time. I'm taking comfort in some of he comments on here that it will settle down...

MRSE20 · 22/09/2022 12:47

I had been at my previous job for 10 years before I started a new job in April last year. The first month or so was really hard and such a change. I had imposter syndrome and didn’t believe I could do it. This is really normal but OP, you can do it! Let yourself settle in for a couple of months xx

AssemblySquare · 22/09/2022 12:56

2.5 weeks into my new job… industry I’ve been in for years. The overwhelm is exhausting!! But as each day goes past it’s starting to get better…

EmmaStone · 22/09/2022 12:59

You can do it! I'm in month 4 of a new job, and I'm definitely still asking stupid questions! Yes to a notebook, write EVERYTHING down (and if you have time at the end of the day, go through your notes, and re-write them into sensible notes if they're a bit incomplete or rambly). When you learn a new process, write process notes to refer back to - everything you're being taught I can almost guarantee you'll have forgotten how to do when you need to do it yourself.

I keep a list of various passwords too (on my phone). They wouldn't be much use to anyone if I lost my phone (but they'd be backed up and I'd be able to restore on a new device). As a team, we also have a password-protected document on our shared drive with shared passwords that we all need to know.

Keep going!

PreferAnimals · 22/09/2022 20:26

HangOnToYourself · 22/09/2022 12:43

I started a new job 3 weeks ago and I'm still in hyper anxiety mode. I felt ok last week but it's been a crazy amount of pressure to deliver in such a short space of time. I'm taking comfort in some of he comments on here that it will settle down...

I felt the same in my last job and got completely stressed initially, but I was there for 7 years. Hopefully it's just self doubt and maybe we just need to give things time and get used to it rather than expecting to know everything straight away. I hope everything works out in your job :-)

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