Nanny resigned from her position with us almost a year ago. The kids did not want her there towards the end but were also really sad when she left and were upset they would never see her again. It ended on bad terms as she felt I was accusing her of lying over something but I was not, it came out wrong. Anyway, we made alternative arrangements and the kids love going to wraparound care which we probably should have done in the first place. However, we are now needing childcare again and got a new sitter to do evenings here and there. Nothing like what our old nanny did as she was there a lot more. Anyhow, I was saying how much the kids like the new sitter to a friend and she said 'Would be really hard for L (old nanny) to hear that especially as she did so much for you all and felt she had to leave as you didn't trust her.' ' I was a bit taken aback. I also didn't like her tone. Aibu to feel it isn't her place to comment and that she should just be pleased that we are all happy?