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...so what exactly is "service and duty"?

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ServiceAndDuty · 20/09/2022 10:14

After countless threads on the royal family, I feel nobody goes into full detail of what the royal family do apart from the same phrase "service and duty".

I genuinely would like to be enlightened on what this "service and duty" is, not including showing up to events and waving, watching tennis and rugby matches, opening places, having an expensive wedding sometimes etc.

I feel nobody has really answered in detail what it is.

I am open to being educated if I'm missing something.

OP posts:
Topgub · 20/09/2022 11:19

@wincarwoo

You responded to my question with depends how you look at it.

I took that to mean you thought it was worth it.

wincarwoo · 20/09/2022 11:20

Topgub · 20/09/2022 11:18

@CulturePigeon

And if you're aware of all that and still don't agree with the over inflated notion of service and duty?

Its a job that is so vastly overpaid its unreal.

Nothing they could do could make up for what they've taken and to male up for their belief that they are better than literally everyone.

I don't think it is over inflated. They perform a service. The nation benefits. People love them. They are part of our constitution

walkingonsunshinekat · 20/09/2022 11:21

Mamamia7962 · 20/09/2022 11:16

Posted too soon.

Luxury goods exports. Everyone knew who the Queen was. A survey carried out in China which asked what people associated most with Britain, the Queen was the top answer.

It will be interesting to see how much the passing of the Queen will affect the future of the monarchy.

Sad isn't it? not science, engineering or even sport but a tired old lady from a bygone era.

Read up on the Queen's 'soft power' - her diplomatic role in hosting and meeting foreign heads of state and dignitaries, especially her State Visit to Ireland in 2011 which enormously helped the Peace Process

The GFA had been signed and implemented long before her visit, the IRA had dis armed, Paisley had accepted McGuiness as deputy minister years earlier but then the Queen signed of Brexit which has done so much to undermine the GFA and the peace process.

walkingonsunshinekat · 20/09/2022 11:23

wincarwoo · 20/09/2022 11:20

I don't think it is over inflated. They perform a service. The nation benefits. People love them. They are part of our constitution

Again, how do we all benefit?

Its a just a meaningless phrase.

Topgub · 20/09/2022 11:23

@wincarwoo

Of course its over inflated.

The fact that people love them is part of the problem

They dont love you, thats for sure.

MrsClarkandPercy · 20/09/2022 11:23

It is your life not being your own, to decide what you want to do, where to live, how to be, dress, etc.

It's being born into a situation where your family obligation is to devote your life to setting a good example to others, and spending your working hours helping them.

MrsClarkandPercy · 20/09/2022 11:25

Service and duty is at 96 still working. With a smile on your face and love in your heart. Until less than 48 hours before you die.

Databe · 20/09/2022 11:25

The monarch is a symbolic duty, as head of The Anglican Church, Leader of the Common Wealth, formerly Emperor. Head of army and Navy.
Basically the King is a figure head for the traditional British Institutions and therefore power structures. The TV show is called 'The Crown' because the monarch is transient, the Crown, is historic and marches on into the future eternally, or so they plan.

Topgub · 20/09/2022 11:26

How have the rf set a good example to others?

What example has Andrew set?

Or Charles?

Or William? Or Kate for not leaving?

CornflowerBlue62 · 20/09/2022 11:29

Being either ripped apart or sycophantically adored by the world’s media. Sometimes both, in the same day. And having to take it. I think that’s definitely part of their service and duty and not for all the diamonds in existence would I do that.

Seriously…. I think it’s hard to quantify because such a lot of it is soft power. It’s being endowed with myth and glamour and money and the very essence of a nation and having to switch it on for the benefit of people. So you make someone’s life because you speak to them. Or a foreign nation is well disposed towards making a deal with us because of a royal visit.

it’s a cage. Surely staying in it is service and duty.

WeAreTheHeroes · 20/09/2022 11:31

The monarch is also Head of State. Not just in the UK.

If you've ever travelled for work you'll know it isn't glamorous and fun about 95% of the time.

Imagine your diary being booked up years in advance with all the places you have to go to, meeting people you are unfamiliar with and undertaking tasks ranging from opening parliament to unveiling a plaque at a new public building. Your time is literally not your own, but it is your duty to go in service of your country.

OhMerde · 20/09/2022 11:33

LadyHarmby · 20/09/2022 10:22

Maybe a better phrase - what commitments do the royals have? What does their working day/week/year entail?

Ever looked at the court circular thing in The Times? A list of extremely tedious-looking engagements, audiences and meetings.

I've just had a bit of a read through that. Christ almighty, they do two thirds of fuck all don't they!! I'm shocked. I vaguely thought that they had reasonably busy-ish schedules but they absolutely do not. A bit of pratting around at tennis matches and polo events and the occasional zoom meeting. Bit of an eye opener that!

milveycrohn · 20/09/2022 11:33

The Queen has a constitutional role, in that she has weekly audiences with the Prime Minister, and the red boxes follow her around everywhere. She has to sign various Acts of Parliament, I believe.
She is also required by the Government to host various dignitaries - foreign rulers, etc.
All new ambassadors are introduced to the Queen - Monarch, etc (recently by Zoom, since her mobility problems, etc)

KimberleyClark · 20/09/2022 11:36

If you've ever travelled for work you'll know it isn't glamorous and fun about 95% of the time.

I’d imagine having your own private jet makes it less stressful than for ordinary people who have to queue at check in, negotiate airport security passport control etc.

wincarwoo · 20/09/2022 11:36

Topgub · 20/09/2022 11:26

How have the rf set a good example to others?

What example has Andrew set?

Or Charles?

Or William? Or Kate for not leaving?

Why do they have to set a good example? They are human.

OhMerde · 20/09/2022 11:37

Dinoteeth · 20/09/2022 11:09

The bits you don't see are them meeting the PM every week, never discussing what is said in those meetings. Questioning what is happening in country, what can Gov do about it.
Going though government papers every day.
International relations, meeting other heads of state, to encourage good relations and trade links.

Going to meetings with people you don't actually like, but always being nice and kind to them. Hosting visitors.

State banquets sound great lots of food, but you need to make conversation with people to make and build relationships. That's not always easy.

It's a bit of a stretch to include 'not discussing' something as a duty.

Topgub · 20/09/2022 11:38

@wincarwoo

I was responding to @MrsClarkandPercy

Who said they had to

And the whole idea of royalty is that they are not just human

They're royal.

So above the plebs.

Of course they need to set a good example (they dont) They're paid enough for it.

marcellen · 20/09/2022 11:38

wincarwoo · 20/09/2022 11:36

Why do they have to set a good example? They are human.

You think it's 'human' to take advantage of underage girls?

Crikeyalmighty · 20/09/2022 11:39

I think this gvt are possibly going to have a shock with Charles. For instance the Cancelling of parliament that Johnson did- I think Charles would have asked rather more detailed questions and took secondary advice.

Topgub · 20/09/2022 11:39

I mean, I know people were accusing the op of being obtuse but some of these responses are ridiculous

Oh. They have to travel.

They have to talk to people.

Has everyone forgotten what an actual job is?

SingaporeSlinky · 20/09/2022 11:42

As for not seeing any specifics, I saw various interviews last week with people who were helped personally by the Princes Trust, who said they might not be here without it! I think you underestimate the charitable work of theirs, their royal patronages, it all brings awareness, and ultimately money for good causes they support.

Someone else asked what tourism does for ordinary people - surely hotels have benefitted this week, people renting out their car parking spaces, shop keepers selling touristy stuff, other shops, cafes, restaurants. Train operators up and down the country, airlines.

The Duke of Edinburgh Awards scheme encourages young people. Kate brought out that post-Covid photography book for the National Portrait Gallery, Meghan helped with that Grenfell cookbook. Just off the top of my head.

Southwestten · 20/09/2022 11:44

anyway I won't be responding to you after this as I'm here for a discussion not an argument.

You mean a discussion in which everyone has to agree with you?

wincarwoo · 20/09/2022 11:44

@marcellen nice try.

Minimalme · 20/09/2022 11:45

I've always assumed it meant their service and duty to the public.

Which I think broadly translates to turning up for events, waving from a carriage and having a show role involvement in the Government.

It doesn't strike me as particularly onerous and the enormous privilege makes it personally hard to feel thankful.

Topgub · 20/09/2022 11:47

I'm not grateful for their 'charitable' work.

Its the bloody least they could do.