I was in my last job 5 years. Went on maternity . We moved so I couldn’t return.
I’m desperate for another baby .
Just started a new job with decentish pay . It is
4 long days which fit around baby . Thing is ,
A month in, I hate it .
The role isn’t what I thought , owner makes me Uncomfortable, not mad on staff ( very clicky) Also, the job has turned out to be alot more physical than I thought.
Thing is , I’m desperate for another baby . I thought I would work in my new role 6 months minimum . Then TTC conceive . Then at minimum I would have worked for by new employer for 9 months before telling them I was pregnant .
However I hate the role and the thought of working there until baby is born is worrying me- especially as role is very physical . I think I’d struggle to do the role pregnant which would put a lot more stress on colleges.
Im picking up a vibe it wouldn’t go well if I told them I was pregnant so soon after starting .
So what do I do ?
Look for another role ? More suited to working in during pregnancy? Maybe in a bigger organization? Less physical ? Then TTC.
Or do I just stick out this job as and tell myself I’m just doing this as a means to an end ? Then have a thick skin whilst pregnant ?!
I’m mid 30s. I don’t need enhanced maternity . But I do need to work until I’m 8 months pregnant and I need SMP.
Please help ??
If we hadn’t of moved I’d have gone back to my job and started TTC asap knowing I’d get full maternity .
I realize it could take along time to conceive second time.