I have a male friend who I used to be friend’s with benefits with and I used to really fancy him for a few years when I was younger. Recently he expressed interest in me and said he was open to dating, he asked me out quite a few times and I was very reluctant told him I wasn’t ready, wasn’t sure if I wanted anything like that after my ex and told him I wasn’t keen on the idea of racist in laws and if I were to have a child with him, I wouldn’t want them to be affected
His brother is outrageously racist, uses the P word, says he isn’t sure he’d attend his brother’s wedding if it was in a mosque/his parents and his brother asked him why he can’t just date a nice white British girl who would be a “proper wife” and that they’d leave England for France and cut contact with my friend if he dated someone who isn’t white British and had a brown baby
Am I being unreasonable not to want to be a part of that as similar experiences have fucked me up?