How much for a cost of hendo

[Peterrabbit23]

How much would you think is reasonable for a hendo cost. I’ve found a spa option for 130 pounds and I think it’s two much but some friends and family think it’s really reasonable I just don’t want people to spend loads of money on something they all won’t want. Should I do a poll option for my friends.

have you been on mumsnet before, i've seen a milquetoast thready run to 1000 posts purely on the basis of a funny typo (or suspected typo that turns out not to be...snapped and farted for one).

I think as long as you make it clear there's no expectations on any friends / family to accept the invite ... all good!
If I had the money, I'd like to go to a spa for a hen if I was close with her and the group.

But It needs to be clear there is no pressure to attend.

I have declined hen do invites before because of the price and a couple of times made to feel quite guilty about it.
The best hens I've been to have been relaxed evenings with drinks at the house or a few hours at a pub. No huge expense or expectation.

I’ve read this whole thread just to see how many comments there were about Henderson’s relish! Which as the OP has inadvertently referenced could make a nice ‘Hendo’ gift as they do mini bottles!