I have been friends with someone for over ten years. She has been a really good friend to me over the years and I think I've been the same back. Recently though I've felt a bit of a distance between us. Texts are a bit less frequent, less to talk about etc. but that's okay, we're both adults, we're busy so wasn't too worried.
About 6 months ago I swapped my weekend that my child was at her dads to coincide with weekends she is off her work (she has no children) - at her insistence. However, we've only made plans on one of those weekends so far.
Anyways the other night I messaged her and asked her what she was upto this weekend, she told me her plans and said she was off Sunday with a smirking face so I said we should take full advantage of this and she replied that she agreed!
So today she text me asking about something unrelated and I replied, we had a chat then I said, 'so what's the weekend plans?' She said 'I'm doing blah blah blah tonight and then think I'm going out tomorrow night you?' I replied saying I had no plans and she said, 'come out if you want!'
I feel a bit weird as I thought we were going out together going from our messages at the beginning of the week but she's obviously made plans to go out with other people. I don't really enjoy her other friends company, when we were last out together, she ditched me at one table and went and sat with them for an hour only catching up with me when they left the pub.
AIBU to feel a bit upset and weird about this or am I being sensitive? Please be honest with me, I can take it