Backstory.... DS only just turned 3 in July he's been to a previous nursery but it was more of a play type then a uniform and learning formally type. Nursery never reported any issues other then delayed speech but his speech has come on a great deal over the last two months.
Today he started a more formal nursery and was super excited to go when he came out the teacher didn't even say hello to me just instantly said "we've had a rough afternoon he's been very naughty throwing rocks and wouldn't come and sit on the carpet when asked too. And what about his speech it's not very good is it"
I replied with oh I'm sorry he's never usually any bother he's normally really well behaved (which he is) and said his speech has really improved over the last few months
She then said oh well we will see if he settles it's the first day. In a very sarcy tone.
This whole conversation happened in front of all the other parents I wasn't pulled to one side or anything and it made me feel awful it wasn't the fact he's been naughty because obviously I should be told when he's been naughty and he should be told off for it but it was more the fact she sounded like she was judging me and was quite rude infront of everyone on his first day. We live in a small village where everyone knows everyone and I'm considered a young mum
I don't even want to take him back tomorrow he's such a lovely little boy and I don't feel like they are even going him a chance because of there first impressions of me.
He's still very young and is being compared to the four year olds he is in class with.
Was she in the wrong the way she went about it or AIBU?