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To ask you about these new WhatsApp privacy settings

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oatmilkicedchai · 04/09/2022 12:41

Does anyone know when the new WhatsApp privacy settings are coming in?

I am waiting to be able to change my settings so that no-one can see when I am online. Best privacy update ever IMO! Does mean can also no longer spy on a partner we might be suspicious of though haha. Yes I have trust issues but am currently single.

Anyway, I would just like to be able to be online writing and reading messages without other friends wondering why my status is online, I find it pressured and anxiety-inducing.

Anyone know when the new feature kicks in?

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NippyWoowoo · 16/10/2022 10:28

Beinganon · 16/10/2022 10:23

According to playstore my app is up to date. Still can’t see this option.

Hmm maybe it's still being rolled out which is annoying but hopefully it's available soon

NippyWoowoo · 16/10/2022 10:29

CookPassBabtridge · 16/10/2022 10:24

You can hide profile picture from people who aren't contacts but can't hide online status from anyone (unless blocked of course)

I hope it'll still show "typing" though so there is some interactivity that makes it feel live unlike text messaging.

Yes I can confirm is does still show 'typing', but does not show 'online' anymore. You only know that the person you're talking to is online when it says 'typing'.

TinySaltLick · 16/10/2022 10:33

NippyWoowoo · 16/10/2022 10:28

Hmm maybe it's still being rolled out which is annoying but hopefully it's available soon

I'm on v 2.22.21.83 if that helps

Beinganon · 16/10/2022 10:40

TinySaltLick · 16/10/2022 10:33

I'm on v 2.22.21.83 if that helps

I’m on the same version 🤔

C8H10N4O2 · 16/10/2022 10:43

Calphurnia88 · 06/09/2022 17:30

This.

Maybe it's because I'm an old 30-something (lol at the PP who said this 😉) but I couldn't give a toss who can see when I'm online. I'll reply in my own time TYVM.

HOWEVER being able to leave a dry group chat without it being announced is a game changer.

I'm the generation up from you and I also couldn't give a toss who sees if I'm online either. I also don't care if someone sees me leave a group chat, although in practice I just ignore them a lot of the time.

So which subset is it who are unable to say "just bloody wait" to people nagging for updates? I don't think its age related - possibly stalkers and wet lettuces?

Shimy · 16/10/2022 10:58

@OP I'm totally with you. Can't wait for this new feature to arrive, I'll probably use whattsapp a lot more.

NippyWoowoo · 16/10/2022 11:40

C8H10N4O2 · 16/10/2022 10:43

I'm the generation up from you and I also couldn't give a toss who sees if I'm online either. I also don't care if someone sees me leave a group chat, although in practice I just ignore them a lot of the time.

So which subset is it who are unable to say "just bloody wait" to people nagging for updates? I don't think its age related - possibly stalkers and wet lettuces?

Here’s an award for being a jobsworth superior to everyone else 🏆

Never understand why someone comes into a thread that’s not for them to let everyone else know that it’s not for them.

NippyWoowoo · 16/10/2022 11:43

@TinySaltLick @Beinganon

This is the version I'm on. Funny it doesn't list being able to hide online status as a new feature, I've also scrolled back through previous updates up to 3 months and it's not stated anywhere.

But the bottom does say the latest update will be rolled out over the coming weeks so here's hoping!

To ask you about these new WhatsApp privacy settings
girlfriend44 · 16/10/2022 11:49

It dosent worry me if people know when I'm online, what annoys me is so and so has left the group. We don't all need to know do we. Wasn't that changing?

NippyWoowoo · 16/10/2022 11:50

girlfriend44 · 16/10/2022 11:49

It dosent worry me if people know when I'm online, what annoys me is so and so has left the group. We don't all need to know do we. Wasn't that changing?

It has, now only admins get notified

girlfriend44 · 16/10/2022 11:56

NippyWoowoo · 16/10/2022 11:50

It has, now only admins get notified

Ahhh OK.

C8H10N4O2 · 16/10/2022 12:17

NippyWoowoo · 16/10/2022 11:40

Here’s an award for being a jobsworth superior to everyone else 🏆

Never understand why someone comes into a thread that’s not for them to let everyone else know that it’s not for them.

Actually I was challenging some of the ageism in the assumptions but don't let that get in the way of your own superior stance.

WildFlowerBees · 16/10/2022 16:30

I have both usual and business WhatsApp, the normal one hasn't changed but the business one has. It's the regular I wanted it for!

fizzypop100 · 16/10/2022 16:34

Whatsweb is very useful and takes seconds to activate. Install on your phone from Google play store ........

CookPassBabtridge · 17/10/2022 11:59

Mines not changed but I don't want/need to hide it anyway.

NippyWoowoo · 17/10/2022 14:16

CookPassBabtridge · 17/10/2022 11:59

Mines not changed but I don't want/need to hide it anyway.

👍🏽

isthismylifenow · 17/10/2022 14:27

I updated today just to have this feature..... but it isn't there.

How half the people on TikTok have it though I am not sure.

NippyWoowoo · 17/10/2022 19:57

isthismylifenow · 17/10/2022 14:27

I updated today just to have this feature..... but it isn't there.

How half the people on TikTok have it though I am not sure.

Hopefully it will be available to you soon, seems like it might be on a rolling-out basis which is highly annoying

MerryForestDay · 17/10/2022 20:34

It's there, but you have to opt in at least one contact who can see your status. It's a case of 'share status with everyone', 'share status with my contacts', 'share status with no-one except x

When will we be able to leave groups discretely????'

NippyWoowoo · 17/10/2022 21:54

MerryForestDay · 17/10/2022 20:34

It's there, but you have to opt in at least one contact who can see your status. It's a case of 'share status with everyone', 'share status with my contacts', 'share status with no-one except x

When will we be able to leave groups discretely????'

you already can leave a group. only the admin gets notified now.

oatmilkicedchai · 19/10/2022 11:41

I also don't have the update yet :(

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Isittrueornot · 24/10/2022 11:03

I have the update now!!

FireandBrimstone · 03/11/2022 11:46

I remembered to check again today, finally new update means being able to hide when online. Here's a screengrab if it helps anyone else toggle their settings. If you have 'Last Seen' set to Nobody then you can choose 'same as Last Seen' to ensure nobody sees when you're 'Online'.

(Im not really interesting enough to be 'cloak and dagger', but on the other hand I know it can stress me out focusing on read receipts and and seeing when someone is online, so my preference is just to limit the stress and not have those settings on)

To ask you about these new WhatsApp privacy settings
oatmilkicedchai · 04/11/2022 22:46

Ohh I am sooo

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oatmilkicedchai · 04/11/2022 22:49

Posted too soon. Meant to say I am so pleased that we now have this option! What a relief!

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