AIBU to be upset over date night

[Maggie178]

Kids slept out at grandparents. Only happens a couple of times a year. Oh got bk late from work. Our date night together was riding our motorbikes to a bike meet where he met up with a some other men with bikes and talked about bikes. They'd stopped serving food so had nothing since lunch. Then rode home in the cold dark rain. OH asked why I was off with him.

I don't think it's reasonable of him to turn up three hours late for a planned date then argue with you if you'd rather stay put with a takeaway together. Sounds like he had a date night planned with his bike rather than you, I'd be upset too.

If you'd planned it and didn't say anything different when he finally got back I don't see how you can be in a mood?

Well he was being a knob showing up 3 hours late, but so were you for not just either eating at home or saying “I’m not going there if there’s no food on, we need to do/find something else”. You both sound like children who don’t want to spend time together.