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To not pay upfront

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misspiggy44 · 01/09/2022 08:51

Recently hired someone to tidy up our garden. Just borders and hedges really, no landscaping or anything like that. I saw a guy advertising on my local Facebook community page and messaged him on a whim. He came the next day to quote the work and said he could do it in the next week.

8 weeks on he still hadn't been. I messaged him a few times and either got ignored or had 'I'll be there next week' but then it never happened. I was about to give up and then he turned up this week in the evening. It seems he is doing it after his day job. The first night he did it two hours then knocked on the door explaining he'd be back for the remainder of the week after work and asked for the full amount upfront (£200). I apologised and said I didn't have that sort of money in the house. He was fine but looked a bit pissed off/disappointed.

I'm now wondering if I was being unreasonable or sensible. If I'd handed the full amount over whose to say if he would have come back to finish the job? He's clearly not a registered company, just doing it as an odd job after work. Dh isn't overjoyed with the standard of work he's already done but I've said we will just pay him regardless and learn a lesson from it. Would you have paid?

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Ohdearnotagain76 · 01/09/2022 08:55

No way, would also make sure work was upto standard and done to what was discussed. Did you know price of work before?

Cigarettesaftersex1 · 01/09/2022 08:55

I wouldn't pay until the works had been completed, and if you're not happy with the work I'd give him the chance to put it right or you'll be knocking some money off the agreed price

Justwantanicepeacfulholiday · 01/09/2022 08:59

I’m a gardener and never get paid upfront, unless there’s products to buy.

misspiggy44 · 01/09/2022 09:00

Yes price was agreed beforehand but I kind of expected him to be here all day for a couple it days and really get stuck in rather than coming for a few hours every night for a week or more.

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gamerchick · 01/09/2022 09:03

No you pay when the job is completed.

If you pay him now, you can't say you've been warned.

Sunnyqueen · 01/09/2022 09:03

No I always pay after he's done it and he is just a cheap guy who does random jobs, no business set up just a mobile number and cash in hand.

DmitriMendeleev · 01/09/2022 09:03

No you are not unreasonable to not pay. I never pay upfront for any work and am currently mid way through a kitchen renovation where all I have paid is the people who have finished their bit (plasterer, electrician).

AmandaHoldensLips · 01/09/2022 09:03

I've never paid upfront for gardening services. Will always pay on completion of work. I learned my lesson about paying upfront!

misspiggy44 · 01/09/2022 09:59

Thanks all I won't be paying until it's done. I just feel a bit uneasy that he's even asked. And awkward that I said no even though it's clearly the sensible thing to do.

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MuggleMe · 01/09/2022 11:34

He knows where you live so getting the money after is less of an issue for him than you trying to track him down if he vanishes.

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