She's his superior at work, and he's known her about a year . I do trust him not to do anything and I know he loves me, if he fancies her deep down (urgh) i know I can't do anything about that.
First of all she has a partner but apparently courts attention from all the men who come into their workplace (public facing) gives them hugs, some have brought her gifts etc.
She went through stress in her new senior role, which apparently she 'didn't want', yet nobody forced her to take it. During this time she bullied my partner, despite being nice to him previously. He was pretty upset and ready to report it to HR then suddenly she was all nice again.
She's done the same thing with 2 other staff members, one has just quit.
She also told my partner he was having a meeting about getting a promotion but it turned out to be a meeting for concern as she'd reported him, which was sly to lie and get his hopes up. Im not saying he's 100% perfect at work but the way she does things is sly.
She texted him calling him a pet name then told him off for calling a customer the same name too.
Anyway atm she's invited him to work with her at some event elsewhere next week (he's the only staff member who she invited) despite there being about 8 staff.
Another staff member is also going now but she had to email asking to be invited.
She offered for my partner to stay at her flat even though there's no need to stay over, the event is only a few hours. Luckily my partner is very loyal and politely declined.
She's posted a picture of them on Facebook doing something she told him he's not allowed to do in working hours, seems like the rule changes when it suits her. On the pic she's doing that fake rolling your head back laughing thing.
I've barely spoken to her but the thing is im conflicted as she's said a few nice things about our relationship to my partner so maybe I'm just being harsh?
I'd never be rude to her or anything, I just don't go to see him when she's there if I can. The best is to just ignore her.
Am I overreacting?