A WWYD really:
I have a lovely new neighbour who is starting her new life post/divorce and has started dating a local man, he’s charming, lovely etc do all very exciting for her.
Unfortunately I have realised who this man is and I know of him well as other members of his family are friends of mine. He is outwardly charming but not a “lovely” man by any stretch of the imagination, think gambling, debts, estranged from family for selling assets that weren’t his etc.
I am now worrying about seeing her as I don’t know how to react! She’s so happy but recently divorced and probably emotionally vulnerable?
So
YABU It’s none of your business, she’s an adult let her get on with it?
YANBU express concern than she should be careful without going into detail?
Any thoughts appreciated!