@Welpthereitis you need a GP appointment not a smear. A smear is a screening tool, not a diagnostic investigation.
Letters and reminders are sent by the Cervical Screening Authority, not your GP. If you choose not to make an appointment after the first letter sent, they will send a reminder, and if no appointment is made by 32 weeks you are marked as a non-responder. Your GP surgery may then choose to send intermittent reminders by text or letter. This is to ensure all women have the opportunity to attend if they want. Many will forget to make an appointment, or lose the letter and think they can’t attend without it, or don’t realise that as long as they are eligible for a smear they can attend any time it’s due even if years past their eligibility date.
The official guidance for withdrawal from cervical screening is
Most individuals who choose not to participate in the programme will do so by not making an appointment to have a sample taken rather than by making a request to be ceased. Where individuals do not respond to a screening invitation, they are designated as ‘non-responders’ after 32 weeks and may receive additional reminder letters from their GP practice. Individuals who remain eligible for screening are recalled at intervals according to current protocols.
An individual can make an informed choice to be permanently ceased from call and recall. The request for permanent withdrawal from cervical screening should be submitted in writing where possible. This is to ensure that there is no misunderstanding and that they are not ceased from call and recall in error. Further details on the ceasing procedure are available in Cervical screening: removing women from routine invitations.
I do hundreds of smears a year. I think they are a good thing but would never use guilt, misinformation or coercion to persuade a woman into having one. There are things we can do to make it easier for women who find them difficult or painful. A good practitioner should take the time and effort to do this, however despite all our best efforts and plenty of experience some women do find them distressing or painful. We shouldn’t minimise that but work with a woman to enable her to have a smear should she want one.
Oh and to the PP who thinks only gynaecologists should be doing smears - give over. We don’t have enough to deal with gynae-oncology or gynae-urology let alone be carrying out routine procedures. We can refer to the Difficult Smear clinic if needed, but very few women need this.