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To think it's weird to stay in contact with an ex if you have no kids together

15 replies

jacketoff · 30/08/2022 16:12

If you are divorced or been in a long term relationship and have no kids with your ex, did you stay in contact at all afterwards?

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PonyTime · 30/08/2022 16:13

Why would it be weird

People can stay friends you know

londonlass71 · 30/08/2022 16:15

Some people are still great friends after a break up

marsdon · 30/08/2022 16:16

It's not weird I'm still best friend with my Ex.

MrsTerryPratchett · 30/08/2022 16:17

Not my exH but others. I mean I liked them enough to be with them for a while, why not?

00100001 · 30/08/2022 16:17

Depends on the reasons for the break up i suppose...and history.

A few people I know have remained good friends post divorce. They were suited better that way

Creepymanonagoatfarm · 30/08/2022 16:18

Dumped him one Sunday night.
Told him to be gone on the Monday before I got back from work.
Not seen him whatsoever in 10 years.
No friend of mine.

HesterShaw1 · 30/08/2022 16:18

My exH and I, while I often want to throttle him, love each other dearly. In fact we work together. No kids. Both now in other relationships.

He's like an annoying relative

FourChimneys · 30/08/2022 16:19

Not at all weird. An ex and I have been exchanging birthday and Christmas cards for about 40 years, with snippets of news.

DH of over 30 years has absolutely no problem with this.

Indoctro · 30/08/2022 16:19

Yes and still are

He actually came to my wedding.

We were together 6 years but split up and remained friends

My husband likes him too and he is still a friend of mine although he lives abroad now with his wife and kids. We still stay in touch.

Wombat27A · 30/08/2022 16:23

My DH's ex rocked up & got a job at the same office...

VapeVamp12 · 30/08/2022 16:24

I'm not friends with any exes

Discovereads · 30/08/2022 16:25

I think it depends on the relationship and breakup. In some cases it’s wierd, in others totally not wierd.

Twizbe · 30/08/2022 16:32

Totally depends on the relationship and why you broke up

Mulberry974 · 30/08/2022 16:52

Only weird if you make it weird. I've known my ex husband for over 20 years, we couldn't make marriage work but he's a good friend.

Verbena87 · 30/08/2022 16:56

Only had one long term relationship besides my husband, we’re still friends and DH and I are both friends with ex and his wife. Not weird for us but definitely depends massively on individuals and situation.

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