I've posted before but name changing incase SIL is on here.
I'm in an LDR, my partner is moving to me next month (he's moving as I have kids so I can't move), been with him 2 years and getting married in the next few months
I fell pregnant (planned), MIL told OH to get a DNA test as the dates didn't add up. She then told me what she'd said because (in her words) she knew OH would. She was all like "I'm sure you can understand why I asked for a DNA" (er no hun I can't)
I sadly lost the baby.
She told OH unless she sees paperwork to prove I was pregnant and lost it that she would always think I was lying.
She didn't ever ask me how I was. She didn't speak to me at all.
OH cut her off pretty much but went to see her last week, he told her he's moving here and she played victim, saying why is she the bad guy... tried to manipulate him by saying she missed my kids (she's met them twice!) and been thinking about them etc.
She sent me a very bitter apology, you'd have to read it to see how ridiculous and reluctant it was. She told OH she would apologise and that she'd been trying to keep the peace because she didn't want him to move away from her or get hurt by me
I responded that I felt it wasn't acceptable given what she's done (and listed it). I reassured her I wasn't going to hurt or take advantage of OH. I think my reply was quite pleasant.
She told OH she doesn't like me and if she talks to me again she'll end up saying horrible stuff so she's going to leave it there. She refuses to acknowledge how she said I was lying about the baby.
She acts like I'm annoyed she asked for a DNA. That's bad enough but I'm hurt by the accusation.
She previously manipulated my 13yo by asking her if she wanted OH to move or if it would be more fun if we moved closer to her, my kid politely said "I don't know" and MIL said "oh I think it's mucy better if you move" type stuff...
Anyway I don't want her at the wedding or around me and my kids.
AIBU?