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Am I being a CF? Ebay

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Yex · 26/08/2022 22:19

My 3yo DD has been pleading for a barbie camper van for Christmas. I looked online and they're not cheap (not for my budget anyway) at £70-£100 brand new.

I checked ebay on the off chance and found one going for auction which ends in 6 days or so and can be posted. Bidding starts at £5.99 and I've placed an introductory bid of £15 (well aware the seller will want more than that and I'm going to increase, I just wanted to get ahead of any other interest)

On a whim I decided to message the seller and ask what ballpark figure she was looking for as I really, really want it for my DD and would gladly buy it right away if she'd consider selling it to me directly.

I very rarely use ebay and after sending the message thought shit, they'll think I'm being a CF.

So was this bad etiquette and unreasonable on my part or do you think it doesn't hurt to ask?

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Hshhshsh · 27/08/2022 09:42

Look on vinted too, might even be able to just buy the missing pool/accessories

CourtneeLuv · 27/08/2022 09:51

Yex · 26/08/2022 22:42

I've just looked on FB marketplace (great suggestion, I didn't think of that before)

There are multiple going for between 10 and 30 within a few miles.

Argggh I should have checked there first.. 🤯

I think you can cancel your bid, it might be a process though

Yex · 27/08/2022 09:57

I've been outbid now, the price has gone up to £16.

PP's are right I shouldn't have bid so early as I've just driven the price up. I'll remember that if I bid on anything on there in the future.

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