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We are too used to Central heating..

392 replies

Dampclout · 26/08/2022 21:41

Until the 1980s very few houses had central heating. Most people heated one room, had hot water bottles at bedtime and wore warm clothes. I can recall quickly going out of the warm front room and shutting the door behind me, if I wasn't quick enough there would be be the shout of ‘shut that door’
Nowadays I wear a tee shirt in winter and keep my house at 20c… I think I will be going back to my childhood ways this winter..

OP posts:
Shauny098 · 26/08/2022 23:52

Why are ppl pissed off at 18 degrees? It’s room temp? If my heating goes above this I can’t breathe!

RedToothBrush · 26/08/2022 23:52

wherearebeefandonioncrisps · 26/08/2022 23:46

We're all too used to comfy warm heating.
We're all too used to schlepping around our homes in all but nightwear.

I grew up with no central heating, a paraffin heater in the living room and nothing else.

I can't imagine how you'd heat a lounge/kitchen/diner.

All the well off middle classes are going to downsize to smaller homes in the city and force the povvos into sharing 5 bed detatched properties in the Home Counties with 6 other families through market forces.

That or theres going to be a rush on getting in a brickie before the winter. Quick get on the blower NOW.

BellaCiao1 · 26/08/2022 23:52

Why do people see a return to the Victorian Ages as a viable option rather than combat the greedy energy companies?

AKnitterofThings · 26/08/2022 23:53

Surely I am not the only one here with no central heating?

Pinkishpurple · 26/08/2022 23:54

Zampa · 26/08/2022 21:47

Yes, I'm used to central heating. And not suffering from chest infections or mould induced asthma.

I'm also used to antibiotics, flushing toilets and refrigeration.

Yes i coughed my way through my childhood with no central heating. Our neighbour who had terrible hearing used to hear my sister and i cough and cough!

TooMuchToDoTooLittleInclination · 26/08/2022 23:55

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 26/08/2022 22:05

Aye so I'll just dig a hole in the wall for a fire place shall I?

Doesn't matter that we don't have the facility or space, @Dampclout said it was fine.

Yeah not everyone was born when you were, some of us have only ever lived with central heating so going back to heating only one room with a fire seems as daunting as shitting in a bucket and chucking it out the window.

Chat with your neighbours and see if they want to go halves in one of those double aspect wood burners!!

one with each neibour & it coukd be toasty 🤣🤣

NippyWoowoo · 26/08/2022 23:56

ILoveAllRainbowsx · 26/08/2022 22:04

We aren't poor but we have been wearing several layers in the winter for years. It is because we don't want to waste money or energy.

This isn't only for poor people.

It is when it's about choice. You choose to live like a Victorian, fine. But other people will be suffering unwillingly because they can't afford it.

Sometimeswinning · 26/08/2022 23:56

BellaCiao1 · 26/08/2022 23:52

Why do people see a return to the Victorian Ages as a viable option rather than combat the greedy energy companies?

Because some of us are aware it can be done. No demand no increases. This is the biggest protest we can actually do. What's your plan? Heat your house into debt? Goodluck with that!!

TooMuchToDoTooLittleInclination · 26/08/2022 23:57

Ragged · 26/08/2022 22:07

We have central heating & I still wear lots of layers in winter, too. You don't have to heat your home to t-shirt temperatures, you know. There is choice.

ps: I grew up somewhere with warm winters, "until the 1980s" statement is meaningless for me. Maybe this is a hidden "Go back home!" message thread.

@Ragged

well you don't need to worry about food, that enormous chip on your shoulder should keep you fed,

kc431 · 27/08/2022 00:00

The competitive coldness on this site kills me 😂 Why is heating always the first thing to cut back on, yet people wash their clothes/pyjamas/bedding/towels/uniform after one wear?! I shower every 2 days, wash my hair once a week, wash my clothes maybe every 10 wears, towels when they smell, bedding every 6 weeks and pyjamas every week. Never used a tumble dryer. Heating stays at 22 and our bills have always been cheap.

Maybe try cutting back on other things before freezing to death…

Isaidnoalready · 27/08/2022 00:03

We used to have coal fires parrafin heaters and we were sick very sick most of my childhood i spent sick its ridiculous to think at 47 I've got to go back there with no coal fire to use as back up

Lockheart · 27/08/2022 00:03

YellowPlumbob · 26/08/2022 22:19

Jesus why do people keep posting this shit? It’s called progress for fucks sake. Every generation before us had a much better standard of living than the one before. Going back to what my Grandparents - two generations above me - lived like as a children isn’t something any of us should have to suck up and deal with.

If that’s your attitude, don’t use the internet, a smart phone, any other tech or antibiotics or anything else that didn’t exist prior to 1950.

It's quite widely acknowledged that current younger generations will be the first in history to have a poorer standard of living than their parents.

There's only so good life can get. At some point you run out of resources and space and kill the planet. Life can't keep getting better forever. We're going to have to adjust to a less comfortable life if we want to survive.

BungleandGeorge · 27/08/2022 00:04

But it’s not most people who heat their houses to such an extent that they waft around in tshirt and nightwear all winter. A lot of people already heat their houses a minimal amount and are likely to be very cold this winter. If you can afford to pay for enough heat for it to be tshirt temperature you can turn the thermostat down a couple of degrees, wear a jumper and still be nice and warm!

Sometimeswinning · 27/08/2022 00:04

kc431 · 27/08/2022 00:00

The competitive coldness on this site kills me 😂 Why is heating always the first thing to cut back on, yet people wash their clothes/pyjamas/bedding/towels/uniform after one wear?! I shower every 2 days, wash my hair once a week, wash my clothes maybe every 10 wears, towels when they smell, bedding every 6 weeks and pyjamas every week. Never used a tumble dryer. Heating stays at 22 and our bills have always been cheap.

Maybe try cutting back on other things before freezing to death…

Freezing to death 🤣🤣 I'm confident we'll be OK. Not happy with manky bedding. Bad hygiene and greasy hair. If I have a choice, the heating goes off!

DragonflyNights · 27/08/2022 00:05

Four Yorkshiremen Sketch. Just sayin 😂m.youtube.com/watch?v=26ZDB9h7BLY

Crikeyalmighty · 27/08/2022 00:06

@kc431 with you on all that. The obsessive washing thing is nuts . There are only 2 of us but I do bedding and towels every 3 to 4 weeks on average , wash my hair once a week etc - dishwasher every 3 days when it's full . My house is clean and tidy .

kc431 · 27/08/2022 00:08

Lol, my hair is dry AF, bedding and clothes don’t smell at all. Everyone prioritises different things. IMO It’s utter bonkers to wash things so much yet be happy living in an oversizes blanket with a hot water bottle as your only heating.

antelopevalley · 27/08/2022 00:09

Towels would smell after a few weeks of being used and not washed.
Bedsheets need changed less if you live alone and do not have sex on them.

kc431 · 27/08/2022 00:09

(That was in response to the previous poster)

RedToothBrush · 27/08/2022 00:10

DysonSphere · 26/08/2022 23:51

Nevermind that. The big question is, are you even a mother if you don't make them all share the same bathwater to save heating costs?

And top up the bath with the kettle.

To be a proper mother you must be doubly incontinent after having had 11 kids and live in a house with two bedrooms. You and your hubby share with the 2 under 5 and the other 4 kip downstairs on the sofa bed they all share together. Hell, don't knock it, it saves on the laundry and they can't whinge about being cold. Your two lodgers have the luxury of the spare room. The other 5 kids are dead. 1 died of monkey pox. 1 died of malutrition. 1 died of polio. 1 died getting run over by a Tesla. And the other one you forget how they died cos you've got so many bloody kids and you've lost track. You hand wash all your clothes and dry them all around the computer tower which is kicking out a few extra degrees whilst you work from home. This helps saves you time and at least you can do the school run without too much trouble. In the evenings you go out to your other job. Being liberated woman you work by choice in the Managed Approach area of the city. Baths are every other sunday. You draw straws to decide the order of who goes in the bathwater first. Forget topping up the bath with the kettle. You've gone frugile and are using a one cup hot water dispenser to save money. You collect water off the walls to recycle for the bath and look forward to snow cos it makes the job a whole load easier. As for fluffy towels? MN would be horrified to learn that you no longer use the tumble dryer and instead have crunchy, scratchy line dried monsterities. You ration bog roll. One chicken lasts for the whole house for a week. You live the rest of the week off baked beans cooked on the embers of your ikea dining table.

THEN you are doing it properly.

antelopevalley · 27/08/2022 00:10

Sometimeswinning · 27/08/2022 00:04

Freezing to death 🤣🤣 I'm confident we'll be OK. Not happy with manky bedding. Bad hygiene and greasy hair. If I have a choice, the heating goes off!

22 degrees is very high. Wear a jumper.

Letsbefriends · 27/08/2022 00:11

I can’t decide how I feel about this post.

We got central heading in 1993.

Before that we relied on an electric bar heater and calor gas heaters. We had storage heaters but they were inefficient and cost so much to run.

My mum did everything she could to keep us warm - lots of warm duvets and blankets, fluffy sheets, hot water bottles etc

But I don’t want my children to be cold. I remember staying with a friend in the 90’s who didn’t have central heating. There was ice inside the windows and the house was freezing - genuinely freezing with lots of damp and mould.

I don’t want this for my children - I think there is a middle ground.

kc431 · 27/08/2022 00:11

I also have the gene where you don’t get BO, so I’ve never washed clothes much, only pants/socks after 1 wear. Washing constantly is so wasteful and bad for the planet, but people happily turn a blind eye to this and harp on about heating - when the whole of Eastern Europe is heating their entire blocks of flats to about 30 degrees for 8 months solid

kc431 · 27/08/2022 00:13

antelopevalley · 27/08/2022 00:10

22 degrees is very high. Wear a jumper.

I DO wear a jumper, and thermal vests, and socks. But I feel the cold a lot and have bad circulation. 22 is room temp for me, 26+ would be “very high”.

NippyWoowoo · 27/08/2022 00:13

SizzlerFizzler · 26/08/2022 22:39

any day now we'll be told that wanting to stay warm in winter is woke nonsense.

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