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To wonder how people will financially survive?

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Cupcakeicecream · 25/08/2022 14:00

To think that many people are struggling already. Food price rises, gas and electric costs. The general cost of living due to inflation from either brexit since the pandemic and Ukraine war. But come on some people were struggling before any of those factors. Financially people will be pushed to breaking christmas will be off the cards general life will stagnate no meals out leisure activities cinema socialising new clothes treat foods. The threat of blackouts and wondering how we will pay bills to keep warm or keep a house running. Never mind buying food the price of it plus the large gaps on shelves. Winter will be miserable. It's becoming impossible to live in this country.

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JasperHale · 26/08/2022 21:02

ItsSnowJokes · 25/08/2022 14:53

The government gives zero fucks that people will die or people will have miserable lives being freezing cold and not having enough food to eat. It doesn't affect them and theirs so why do they care? They didn't give a shit when thousands of people were drying from covid and they proclaimes let the bodies pile high etc.....

In the real world, I hate that we are living like the bloody victorian times. It should not be allowed to happen. And yet some cunts will still vote the tories back in........

THIS! Especially last sentence.

latetothefisting · 26/08/2022 21:04

ShesNotTheMessiah · 26/08/2022 20:30

The new cap of 3549 works out as "only" £295 per month, and that is based on the average household.

And if it goes up as predicted in January the cap of £5387 will be only £448pm.

And if it goes up in April as predicted, the cap of £6616 will be only £551 per month.

That's getting awfully close to £600pm for a lot of people. Maybe even the majority.

It won't be the majority though, because, again, those predictions are still based on a) the average family - average by very definition can't also be the majority AND those on a fix whose bills won't increase also won't be included

and b) the assumption that said family will use the same amount of energy has they have over the previous years and won't at least try to cut back, which the vast majority of people will.

SelfMadeWoman · 26/08/2022 21:07

Genuine question: if my utility bill goes up to the predicted 500 quid a month, where am I supposed to find that extra £400? I use very little energy as it is! Shop at Aldi/Lidl, no holidays, dogs on cheapest food possible, no make up purchases, anything the kids need is from ebay or charity shops. I'm living month to month! I have no savings. One saving grace I suppose is that I have only got £1700 on a credit card, my only debt. Baffled.

Emotionalsupportviper · 26/08/2022 21:08

MintJulia · 25/08/2022 14:42

I grew up in an unheated house in the south of the UK. We were a fsm family and while we had enough food, it was of the less expensive kind. My df grew a lot of veg, everything was home cooked, no takeaways, no ready meals, no snack. Lots of potatoes, toast etc.
People will survive but it isn't fun. It hits the old and the vulnerable worst. Families and communities will need to watch over their own.

I imagine you had a proper fireplace though, and could burn wood or coal to keep warm. A lot of us don't have this option - it's all central heating now.

Mango101 · 26/08/2022 21:08

Rinatinabina · 26/08/2022 20:35

I think everyone is going to be in recession by the end of the year. PMI is falling in Germany and France. The Fed has indicated they will be pushing ahead with rate rises (which they have to and seem to be signalling they will push the USA into a recession to control inflation) strengthening the dollar, the euro has already fallen further than the pound and I believe is at parity with the dollar (europe needs to keep pace with rate rises to hold the real cost of commodities which are traded in dollars so gas oil- however they have been extremely slow to do so, so who knows how that will go) No-one is doing great here. I think you expect to see a drop in GDP across a lot of Europe by 2023. I’m not saying Brexit is not having any effect but the reality is being part of the EU or not would make bugger all difference to the cost of energy. We probably would have been roped into the agreed rationing strategy and been slightly worse off.

Horrible year coming for pretty much everyone. It’s shit.

Being in the EU won't make energy cheaper but it will make it more affordable. Bigger economy - higher wages and govt coffers to give subsidies.

Brexiters need to step up and decide whether being warm is more important than keeping foreigners out.

TheABC · 26/08/2022 21:12

Brexiters need to step up and decide whether being warm is more important than keeping foreigners out.

That ship has sailed. We are actively recruiting abroad for the NHS/care homes and I laugh at the assumption that Europe will simply agree to have us back. We threw away a bloody good deal and Johnson made sure our Brexit was the hardest on offer, because he could not be bothered with the small print.

Solonge · 26/08/2022 21:13

There is always a next election…frankly I can see an uprising….people are going to be starving….what happened historically in France can happen here….

MarshaBradyo · 26/08/2022 21:14

Brexiters need to step up and decide whether being warm is more important than keeping foreigners out.

Even if a vote atm would swing the other way both major parties aren’t offering it up so the process for stepping up isn’t there

Rosscameasdoody · 26/08/2022 21:18

Loachworks · 26/08/2022 20:43

I've had a feeling of impending doom all week, the realisation being that I don't want to be here anymore. Life is too hard. It was just about bearable before (serious illness meaning I'm registered disabled,) now any tiny spark of joy has been extinguished. I don't have great expectations or lead an extravagant life but I can no longer justify those little extras that made it vaguely enjoyable.
I can afford this Winter by using up our savings but once they're gone, they're gone for good. DH can't change his low paid job because of me. I can't work so there's no way to increase our earnings. I've never felt so defeated, they'd be better off without me and we don't have any debt.
I am at home all day and feel the cold as physical pain. Our heating (gas bill) in Winter was already double that of our friends. I can't begin to wrap my head around facing bills of six thousand pounds plus per year. If my life stopped today at least my family would have a chance but I couldn't put them through that. There isn't a solution to makes this ok.

I have a disability too, so I know something of what you’re feeling. Your statement that you don’t want to be here any more worries me. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone uninvolved on a personal level. I have counselling experience and would be glad to lend an ear. Please do PM me if you feel I can help.

Rosscameasdoody · 26/08/2022 21:20

Solonge · 26/08/2022 21:13

There is always a next election…frankly I can see an uprising….people are going to be starving….what happened historically in France can happen here….

It’s been said that the British public will put up with anything without complaint, but I agree with you. When the full realisation of what’s happening hits this winter I think there will be social unrest.

Mango101 · 26/08/2022 21:26

I agree that Brexiters are unlikely to change their minds soon.

But the best way to sow the seeds for rejoining is to make sure the causal relationship between Brexit and economic catastrophe is kept to the forefront (as per the wonderful Emily Maitlis)...

Rosscameasdoody · 26/08/2022 21:26

latetothefisting · 26/08/2022 21:04

It won't be the majority though, because, again, those predictions are still based on a) the average family - average by very definition can't also be the majority AND those on a fix whose bills won't increase also won't be included

and b) the assumption that said family will use the same amount of energy has they have over the previous years and won't at least try to cut back, which the vast majority of people will.

But no-one knows where this will end do they ? If Putin decides to cut off gas supplies to Europe the prices will take off again - even if he doesn’t the prices aren’t coming down any time soon. There was a news report this morning that Russia is burning off $6m of ‘excess’ gas every day - that excess is as a result of cutting supplies to European countries. Hardly bodes well for the future when one lunatic has so much influence.

AnnieSnap · 26/08/2022 21:29

TmFid · 26/08/2022 19:20

I vehemently disagree! Sick to death of Trumpian Tories and the Bozo loving cult of insanity that makes up so many Tory voters, excusing this God awful, corrupt and incompetent government!! There’s something deeply offensive about being told to save energy by the very people who’ve flounced around negligently for the last 12yrs..failing to invest, failing to plan, failing to prioritise renewables or storage…but making damn sure they put in their expenses claims.

But also, there is no reason why a war elsewhere, means a G7 economy, one of the 5 richest in the world, needs to let its most vulnerable people freeze or starve to death whilst a tiny majority enjoy an enormous cash bonanza from the volatility of conflict?? The same impact isn’t being felt by our European neighbours, who are doing something to protect their people from astonishingly high fuel bills!

Absolutely @TmFid and the particular Tory Arsewipe, the Chancellor, who’s being paid by public money to do nothing, telling people to use less energy, had the audacity to claim for heating his bloody stables from the public purse! Bastards 🤬

Rosscameasdoody · 26/08/2022 21:30

teenytims · 26/08/2022 19:38

So much unnecessary drama. Nobody is going to die. Relax! Have a hot bath and put your feet up, read a book. Stop feeding the drama

I’m assuming sarcasm ?

PerfectlyPreservedQuagaarWarrior · 26/08/2022 21:32

TheABC · 26/08/2022 21:12

Brexiters need to step up and decide whether being warm is more important than keeping foreigners out.

That ship has sailed. We are actively recruiting abroad for the NHS/care homes and I laugh at the assumption that Europe will simply agree to have us back. We threw away a bloody good deal and Johnson made sure our Brexit was the hardest on offer, because he could not be bothered with the small print.

Yes, I'm not saying we won't ever rejoin but it won't be in the near future. The situation will have to be such that the EU don't suspect continued volatility and attempts to remove us the next time the government changes. Probably that won't happen until the demographics shift a bit more and the generational cohorts who primarily supported it are fewer in number.

TmFid · 26/08/2022 21:36

You can be damn sure and take for a fact that Bozo, lying Liz, Rishi Rich, the tax dodging Chancellor and the rest of the corrupt cabal of lying, disgusting Tories, won’t be sitting in the cold and dark!! That’s just for us plebs, who have to suck it up and see! Meanwhile these right wing, xenophobic arse lickers, will keep voting for these abhorrent cunts!

Mango101 · 26/08/2022 21:45

Slight tangent, is there a reason why solar panels on new builds still aren't mandatory?

Would reduce energy costs.

And apparently quite good for our planet :)

Rinatinabina · 26/08/2022 21:46

Mango101 · 26/08/2022 21:08

Being in the EU won't make energy cheaper but it will make it more affordable. Bigger economy - higher wages and govt coffers to give subsidies.

Brexiters need to step up and decide whether being warm is more important than keeping foreigners out.

Our welfare system is what makes the UK a low wage economy. Whatever the rights and wrongs of subsidising business costs are it was like this before and it’ll continue to be like this unless we accept we pay more for goods and services so other people can be paid a living wage.

Quite possibly on a larger economy but the reality is the next year will be hard, we don’t really know what that will look like for europe as a whole (us included). There are a lot of moving parts and a lot of uncertainty. I’m not sure that the EU is going to come out of this in much better shape than a post brexit uk. Just can’t be certain. If I could make those kinds of predictions I’d be a very rich woman.

I didn’t vote in the referendum, I have no dog in this fight. I do think global issues and the after effects of the pandemic are more salient issues in the shit hitting the fan.

itsnotmeitsu · 26/08/2022 21:46

Call me a conspiracy theorist (which I never have been), but I think there's more to all that's going on than we know. The sheer shit-show that's the UK with no solutions being offered and the type of businesses no longer able to survive and the majority of the population not able to pay their bills. The bankers, venture capitalists, etc making more and more money whilst hospitality is closing down. Where do people gather and exchange views? There's a massively increasing gap between those who make money on the backs of others' employment and those employed. God forbid that people should have public spaces to come together and agree on fighting for rights. It's all well and fine getting together on social media, but strangers need to be able to come together face to face.

WulyJmpr · 26/08/2022 21:49

Genuine question: Why were the government so quick to step in with all those COVID support measures versus practically nothing of substance in this situation?

SerendipityJane · 26/08/2022 21:50

amijustparanoidorjuststoned · 25/08/2022 14:21

Think very carefully about who you vote for at the general election next year.

But .... Jeremy Corbyn

Rosscameasdoody · 26/08/2022 21:51

PerfectlyPreservedQuagaarWarrior · 26/08/2022 20:35

Increasing the cost of something is a very flawed way to get people to reduce their usage of it though, because what that essentially means is that those who can afford the extra cost aren't incentivised to be any more responsible with their consumption. It means those who can afford it, which actually is still going to be a fair few people particularly given that many of us are on fixes still, aren't actually receiving the message in the same way.

Tory ideology - the divide between rich and poor gets wider. The rich are warm in winter, the poor die if they can’t pay their bills. Anyone feel like we’re living a Dickens novel ?

Twilightimmortal · 26/08/2022 21:52

WulyJmpr · 26/08/2022 21:49

Genuine question: Why were the government so quick to step in with all those COVID support measures versus practically nothing of substance in this situation?

Yes why?

Givemethereins · 26/08/2022 21:58

amijustparanoidorjuststoned · 25/08/2022 14:21

Think very carefully about who you vote for at the general election next year.

This!