Last night we were called to the hospital as dnan had taken a turn and she didn't have long left. Anyways we only just made it, she was in the final stages and was having her last few breaths and as she was a nurse came in to the private room may I add and started lecturing us about face masks.
Now Iv followed all rules etc throughout the pandemic it's just I was in that much of a mess I never thought to put a mask on, I'd spoken to her dr and she never said anything other than offering me refreshments and bereavement services so again just didn't think. As she's lecturing us just on DNs last breaths my DH pointed out to her that she wasn't even wearing her mask correctly (under her nose) and she didn't care she's carried on lecturing us about it all.
Am I being unreasonable to think this is extremely bad bedside manners? The last moments with my DN have been ruined by simply forgetting to wear a mask. Fair enough tell me afterwards but when she's on her final breaths I find it rude! May I add as well that this was in the next town along and the hospital in the town I live in no longer have any covid restrictions in place!