Ok so on a number of occasions my in laws have given us things, then a few weeks/months later got annoyed and half demanded the item back, berating us for how long we've had it.
Don't really want to say what the things are incase mil is on here but they are things that the in laws never use anyway.
The conversation literally goes with them offering something that we didn't ask for, and saying we can just have is because they don't need it/use anymore.
A few months later annoyed asking when we are giving it back because they need it and we're hogging it, only for them to never use it anyway.
For some annoying reason dh won't just remind them that it was given to us.