14 months ago my mother died my mother was close to a niece my couzin and when this couzin claimed she was struggling my mother sent her £5000 and said that was her inheritance but was made clear it was to help her out because of the situation she claimed she was in one of those situations was that she claimed her roof needed repaired which was estimeated to cost £4000 after mum passed couzin said it didnt need done after all this couzin is on uc and is claiming shes struggling and turns out shes went through money mum sent her. I made the mistake of telling her in may my claim for pip had been accepted as i suffer from anxiety and deppression literally every month since then shes asked me to send her money and to order her things on amazon to help her even though she has two brothers and two close freinds that live close to her so where are they? i asked her last year if i could visit her for christmas and the response was that she didnt know what she was doing she may spend it with one of her brothers and his family but she hadnt decided and thats what she decided to do when she knew id be on my own and i was dreading it as i have no freinds here or other family and ive told her i feel isolated so it feels like its one sided one part of me feels like cutting her off as i feel im being used but shes all i have so i dont know what to do for best