My DH insists on offering food even when we say no thanks, he thinks he knows better and will encourage me or DC to have whatever he's offering food wise even if we clearly said no Thankyou. Big blow up at the dinner table tonight because he wanted to serve DD when she clearly said she'd like to serve herself. DH is hurt because he says it's his love language. I find it irritating and even disrespectful because whilst I concede that to offer once is kind, to insist and feel hurt or rejected when someone has clearly said no thanks is dickish.