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A cautionary tale.

10 replies

Fingeronthebutton · 22/08/2022 08:54

This is an issue that concerns me very much ( I’m old šŸ˜„)
I want all young married women to be aware of what could happen

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11132081/A-cautionary-tale-one-widow-wrongly-assumed-marriage-protect-financially.html

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sittingonacornflake · 22/08/2022 09:03

I can't click that link because it's the daily fail.

Can you summarise?

hellosunshineagainx · 22/08/2022 09:08

So he had a loan from his father to buy his flat so that had to be paid back. She had been paying rent on his flat that he didn't own all of. So what's the cautionary tale exactly? Make sure you know if your husband has loans? A will wouldn't have changed this outcome surely?

Jengnr · 22/08/2022 09:21

Her problem here is her husband not telling her about his finances.

ChagSameachDoreen · 22/08/2022 09:26

I can't click that link because it's the daily fail.

šŸ˜†

AnneLovesGilbert · 22/08/2022 09:29

I don’t think the lesson here is what you or she thinks it is.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 22/08/2022 09:34

ChagSameachDoreen · 22/08/2022 09:26

I can't click that link because it's the daily fail.

šŸ˜†

Well I clicked it and the cat exploded! I won't do that again (I've only got one cat left now Sad)

JasmineIndigo · 22/08/2022 09:40

This advert/article was in the times a few months ago. It's nothing to do with not being protected by marriage and everything to do with the husband being secretive about money.

Georgeskitchen · 22/08/2022 09:41

sittingonacornflake · 22/08/2022 09:03

I can't click that link because it's the daily fail.

Can you summarise?

🤣🤣🤣

Tiptoeingthroughthetulips · 22/08/2022 09:54

The article is a wee bit of a red herring. Marriage would have protected her if they'd spoken openly about their finances. She'd have known that a) she wasn't the beneficiary of his life insurance policy and b) there was paperwork to say that in the event he died, the debt to his dad would have to be repaid in full.

Really, the husband had not made any provision for his wife in the event of his death. He was only young and died totally unexpectedly but I'd say it was normal, if you're pooling your finances to also make provision for one of you dying.

In the article she does say she would consider herself to be 'almost negligent' in not knowing about much of this.

Marriage does offer good financial protection but only if you're completely transparent with each other and make sure that all your legal ducks are in a row.

Merryoldgoat · 22/08/2022 10:03

As PP said this is about a woman absolving herself of any responsibility for her finances.

If she weren’t married the house would’ve just gone to his parents in its entirety which she’s ignoring.

Utter bollocks.

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