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What worse - a boy peeing on the beach or a dog peeing on a footpath?

71 replies

JerryGarcia · 21/08/2022 20:31

Just sat on the promende by a beach and saw a boy (7-8years old) pull his trunks down and pee on the sand before running off to carry on playing. Cue gasps of 'that's disgusting...did you see what that boy just did?!' From one lady. Less than 2 mins later her dog peed in the middle of the prom.

AIBU to think that dogs peeing on the pavemet where we walk, often barefoot is as bad, if not worse than a kid peeing in the sand that will get washed away by the tide?

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TheHateIsNotGood · 21/08/2022 21:44

Both are ok neither is "worse" both children and animals need to pee and most here will agree better outside than inside.

Hand me the smelling salts.......

Despairingof · 21/08/2022 21:44

Where on earth should the dog wee?! There’s no dog toilets

Livelovebehappy · 21/08/2022 21:50

People go barefoot and sit down on the beach. People don’t go barefoot or sit down on the pavement.

Angelinflipflops · 21/08/2022 21:52

So can I piss on the pavement then?

StarDolphins · 21/08/2022 21:53

Kid peeing in beach is much worse - at 7 he should be able to communicate he needs a toilet!

dogs can’t pee in a toilet so I’ll let them off!

Flossflower · 21/08/2022 21:59

Christonabike37 · 21/08/2022 20:39

A kid should know better. Dogs don't. People are barefoot on the beach and dig with their hands. Only the bottoms of our shoes touch the pavement.

Dogs don’t know better but their owners should!

Angelinflipflops · 21/08/2022 22:01

I think dogs pissing everywhere is gross

Mummyoflittledragon · 21/08/2022 22:05

As a dog owner myself, the woman should have taken the dog to a grassy area regularly to pee. Dog wee on tarmac is smelly. On that basis, I find what the woman allowed her dog to do worse. She is an adult. The boy is a child. And yes, it is possible to stop a dog weeing in inappropriate place, unless they are incontinent or have a medical condition.

TheHateIsNotGood · 21/08/2022 22:06

The little boy wasn't taking a dump in the High Street outside Greggs fgs - although some dogs might which is socially acceptable if immediately picked up by the dog parent/carer. Sometimes a little smear of shit is left behind too.

Which is probably more unhygenic than 'residue of little boy pee in the sand'.

Being a current/previous parent/carer of both dogs and little boys I do feel fully qualified to comment on this hugely irrelevant matter.

WeIoveyouMissHannigan · 21/08/2022 22:08

You’re never naked/barefoot on a pavement

you are on a beach.

plus dog vs human

Child definitely a yob

Angelinflipflops · 21/08/2022 22:11

Beaches are usually quite big. Let's hope that tiny patch the wee boy pissed on didn't get made into a sandcastle

LadyApplejack · 21/08/2022 22:13

Ideally both would have been more discreet but I wouldn't care about either.

TheHateIsNotGood · 21/08/2022 22:15

Oh god - I must have been imagining my own life then - when I often and still walk barefoot and sit on pavements. Obviously not in white trousers and expect my feet to need cleaning afterwards. I'm only 60 so hopefully it will be a few years before I walk naked around the streets. Peeing at will as I go.

mountainsunsets · 21/08/2022 22:17

Neither would bother me.

Around here, dogs pee on the beach and horses shit there too Wink

greywinds · 21/08/2022 22:25

What @chasingthedreamer said - it is absolutely hard for some kids to hold it.

But I see this is in fact a stealth dog bashing thread so...

Yes, the sewage is the real issue.

allinatizzy · 21/08/2022 22:27

Dogs are animals. Human pee is worse, imo.

MrsMitford3 · 21/08/2022 22:31

the boy is absolutely grim

the dog is a dog and pees outside

allboysherebutme · 21/08/2022 22:55

Kid in the sand is worse, other kids may bury themselves in that, you can see where a dog has peed on the floor and wouldn't put your bag down in it, also dogs have no choice where to pee they don't have the luxury of being able to use the toilet. X

allboysherebutme · 21/08/2022 22:57

@JerryGarcia why did you have to bring the colour of his skin into it, she didn't mention it, just thought what he was doing was wrong.

hotdiggetydog · 21/08/2022 22:58

Hahaha the absolute lad. Adorable

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 21/08/2022 23:24

The boy should have just stick his bum in the sea and had a wee like normal people do 😂 dogs have to wee somewhere I guess but I do hate it when owners let them pee in the middle of walkways

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