Sorry you've had these experiences OP.
The system is shockingly unfit for purpose. Your account is the tip of a mighty iceberg.
CAMHS is flailing. Children who I support with severe mental health difficulties and suicidal intent are turned away- an actual attempt has to be made to be seen. Even then they tend to be seen once and turned away. Otherwise it's a waiting list of over a year.
Children who clearly have asd or adhd have to wait at least 3 years for an assessment- even where a medical professional has highlighted an urgent need for assessment. Given that adhd responds beautifully to medication and therapy in most people this is ridiculous- 3 years of chaotic brain, failure to meet potential, anxiety, school disruption etc..
I am post menopausal and had unexplained bleeding beginning 24 months ago. This should have been seen on an urgent 2 week wait. . I still have not been seen despite my GP begging our local gynae clinic. So I live with daily spotting. Many other women live in excruciating pain.
Getting an nhs dental appointment is impossible.
People are waiting hours and hours for ambulances and paramedics are traumatised by the situation.
None of this stuff is news to anyone anymore. The dire situation is well known. No changes are forthcoming. No ministers are taking drastic action- or even mediocre action.
I don't think anyone in government intends to fix the NHS.
However, if they didn't all have access to private healthcare I'm quite sure that they wouldn't have allowed this shambles to happen. It's a case of "I'm alright Jack".....