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Manager has refused mileage claim - AIBU?

162 replies

wonderingwanderer2 · 20/08/2022 00:33

I work in the community and so submit my mileage expenses each month. I tend to write my visits in before I do them otherwise I worry I will forget - this is clearly not a good strategy due to what has happened below and I will now do them retrospectively.

I submitted my July mileage and my manager rejected it on the basis that there was one entry that was incorrect - a face-to-face visit had been changed to an online one and I had forgotten to delete the entry - she had seen that it was a Teams meeting in my diary. I apologised and deleted the entry and resubmitted it. I have only just noticed that the mileage for the whole month (a substantial amount) has been rejected again.

Is she allowed to do this? Obviously I was at fault for not deleting the other entry when the meeting was changed to an online one, but AIBU to think she's wrong to not pay my mileage for the rest of the month now the incorrect entry has been deleted? How should I raise this with her?

OP posts:
letmechangetheatmosphere · 20/08/2022 23:06

wonderingwanderer2 · 20/08/2022 22:57

@letmechangetheatmosphere yeah im
not going to kick off, I just want to know why she has rejected it again and why she hasn’t told me, that’s what I will ask on Monday - or do you think I should just not raise it?

I'm not you and I'm not in possession of the full details so I can't say what I think you should do.

I can say that if I realised I'd been using an imperfect system for submitting my expenses and got caught out two weeks before I was due to leave then I'd be keeping my head down about it.

wonderingwanderer2 · 21/08/2022 00:15

@letmechangetheatmosphere even if it seemed your manager was aware?

OP posts:
wonderingwanderer2 · 21/08/2022 00:16

My friend is a HR manager and said this wouldn’t be a big deal in her organisation…

OP posts:
Johnnysgirl · 21/08/2022 00:18

Why are you asking on here if you have a HR manager telling you it's not a problem? Hmm. As if...

wonderingwanderer2 · 21/08/2022 00:25

@Johnnysgirl still good to get different opinions, some organisations may work differently to others. She works for a college and I don’t.

OP posts:
HuffleWoof · 21/08/2022 00:29

@wonderingwanderer2 in the nhs it would be classed as fraud but you don't want to hear that so it'll all be fine

HeckyPeck · 21/08/2022 00:30

People are being ridiculously overdramatic on here.

As if one small mistake on expenses is fraud 🙄

Endlesslypatient82 · 21/08/2022 05:46

Johnnysgirl · 21/08/2022 00:18

Why are you asking on here if you have a HR manager telling you it's not a problem? Hmm. As if...

It’s her “friend” who has only heard the OzP’s version.

not exactly the most objective of people

Endlesslypatient82 · 21/08/2022 05:48

HeckyPeck · 21/08/2022 00:30

People are being ridiculously overdramatic on here.

As if one small mistake on expenses is fraud 🙄

Exactly it wouldn’t

but given the op admits her way of doing expenses is not ideal and that she should change the way she does it - if it isn’t the first, then it would well be indicative of a manager who has had suspicions for some time.

And actually “small” mistakes in fraud are often the gateway to revealing much bigger fraud.

Nobetterthansheoughttobe · 21/08/2022 06:48

wonderingwanderer2 · 20/08/2022 13:39

@Quveas i am leaving very soon anyway so it wouldn’t really be in their interests to dismiss me

But they could contact your new employer

Nobetterthansheoughttobe · 21/08/2022 06:52

Novum · 20/08/2022 14:32

No, it wasn't fraudulent. To constitute fraud, it would have to be intentional.

thrpe OP said she always completes mileage sheets before she sets off and changes accordingly. It is a pattern which could be contrued as intent to fraud. She forgot to cover her transgression this time and it was noted,

Nobetterthansheoughttobe · 21/08/2022 06:58

kitcat15 · 20/08/2022 15:32

Are you for fucking real??
I don’t for one second think my manager ever checks my mileage….she often approves it seconds after I submit it….she wouldn’t give a shiny shite about an error like OPs….at the end of the day I always exceed my mileage claims with road works…I’m NHS….and this has always been the case for the 25 years I’ve worked in the community….fucking ridiculous post🙄

i too work in the NHS, and if your manager doesn't give a 'shiny shite' about expenses claims, then we know part of the reason it is in such a financial mess.
Attitude such as yours, this 'entitlement' to a pen here, a mileage claim there, is abuse of tax payers money.

Nobetterthansheoughttobe · 21/08/2022 07:00

wonderingwanderer2 · 20/08/2022 18:48

@letmechangetheatmosphere not a significant amount - certainly not worth their while investigating - and I’m fairly certain it’s never happened before but you have worried me now! What might they do if I work the last two weeks (I only have one working week left, the last week is annual leave)?

it's not the amount, it's the principle

djdkdkddkek · 21/08/2022 07:01

I don’t think your manager would be pleased with you telling people she doesn’t give a “shiny shite” about any expense claim you put in

tbh OP they’re prob going to audit your previous claims and this one too
itd just the way it goes. You put in a wrong claim for money which your manager had to pull you up on. It’s obvious they’re a bit untrusting of your claims now, naturally.

Nobetterthansheoughttobe · 21/08/2022 07:06

HeckyPeck · 21/08/2022 00:30

People are being ridiculously overdramatic on here.

As if one small mistake on expenses is fraud 🙄

nHS worker, so it's your national insurance contributions paying OPs wage and mileage claims
So no, not dramatic. Except for those who don't pay NI or think that trying to claim money for something not done is ok

Ithinkitsenoughnow · 21/08/2022 07:15

The fact that you’re considering not pursuing it implies you know you’ve done this before

kitcat15 · 21/08/2022 07:17

HuffleWoof · 21/08/2022 00:29

@wonderingwanderer2 in the nhs it would be classed as fraud but you don't want to hear that so it'll all be fine

Except it wouldn't....be fraud 🙄....no one would give a shiny shite

Endlesslypatient82 · 21/08/2022 07:25

Ithinkitsenoughnow · 21/08/2022 07:15

The fact that you’re considering not pursuing it implies you know you’ve done this before

Yes.

i suspect the op knows it would be like opening a Pandora’s box and would lead to a full Audit of her expenses

Endlesslypatient82 · 21/08/2022 07:26

kitcat15 · 21/08/2022 07:17

Except it wouldn't....be fraud 🙄....no one would give a shiny shite

what do you do as work @kitcat15 or at least the industry you work in?

Endlesslypatient82 · 21/08/2022 07:43

kitcat15 · 21/08/2022 07:17

Except it wouldn't....be fraud 🙄....no one would give a shiny shite

Shit
Just seen you work for the nhs

i find it so depressing that someone working for the nhs has this opinion presumably based on experience. So different to private sector, where potential misallocation of money / fraud / unintentional mistake is genuinely at least lightly explored. But it would seem “no one” gives a “shiny shit” in the nhs according to @kitcat15

XelaM · 21/08/2022 08:15

Fraud requires dishonesty! Genuine mistake is not fraud.

HeckyPeck · 21/08/2022 08:50

Nobetterthansheoughttobe · 21/08/2022 07:06

nHS worker, so it's your national insurance contributions paying OPs wage and mileage claims
So no, not dramatic. Except for those who don't pay NI or think that trying to claim money for something not done is ok

It is dramatic because it was a mistake. Not intentional. OP wasn't 'trying to claim for something they hadn't done', they made a mistake which they rectified as soon as it was pointed out.

HeckyPeck · 21/08/2022 09:00

Nobetterthansheoughttobe · 21/08/2022 06:48

But they could contact your new employer

As someone who has given references in the past, the absolute most they could say at the moment is that OP forgot to take off a meeting that changed to online. I very much doubt they will do that.

If an investigation went ahead and found more discrepancies and proved the OP was acting fraudulently, then things might be different.

Novum · 21/08/2022 10:05

Quveas · 20/08/2022 15:03

I believe that is exactly what I said.

Well, no, it isn't. You said "The employer does not have to prove intent or fraud."

Quia · 21/08/2022 10:09

HuffleWoof · 21/08/2022 00:29

@wonderingwanderer2 in the nhs it would be classed as fraud but you don't want to hear that so it'll all be fine

No, it wouldn't automatically be classed as fraud in the NHS.