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The lav in the kitchen

20 replies

SlouchingTowardsBethlehemAgain · 19/08/2022 20:08

We have a lavatory just off the kitchen - it was there when we bought the place, and is our only 2nd lav so very handy. On very hot days, the lav's open window will give a cross breeze to the pantry's open window - nice and cool but only works if the lav door is open. However, I really don't want to look at the lavatory bowl while I am eating dinner. DH insists it does not matter and the cool air is more important, but I find it entirely off-putting, particularity because this is mostly DH's lav and though I keep an eye on it, I am not always 100% convinced that it is pristine. Even if I move my place at the table so I can't actually see the open lav door - I still know it is there and it just feels so very, very wrong to be eating next door to an open lav. AIBU

OP posts:
Planker · 19/08/2022 20:10

Close the lid ?

Vecnasnurse · 19/08/2022 20:10

Bead curtain? Or macrame curtain if you're fancy 😁

TheFlis12345 · 19/08/2022 20:11

Yes I was going to suggest some sort of curtain as well, a fine muslin?

SlouchingTowardsBethlehemAgain · 19/08/2022 20:21

Gosh, I was expecting Mums net to tell me to raise my standards and not to be eating my dinner next to an open lav. Curtains? Well why not give it a go?
They would hide the old lavatory for sure.

OP posts:
SlouchingTowardsBethlehemAgain · 19/08/2022 20:28

@Planker The lid is always closed as you would well know.

OP posts:
ratspeaker · 19/08/2022 20:28

Close the door when eating.
open it when done

100problems · 19/08/2022 20:30

I wouldn't like to gaze at it whilst enjoying my dinner, but the offer of a cool breeze is compelling so I think a screen door of some sort would be the compromise.

Ormally · 19/08/2022 20:41

Very big tea cosy over the pan?

KangarooKenny · 19/08/2022 21:19

Can you see the loo brush ?

hoteltango · 19/08/2022 22:04

A bit expensive - maybe a stable door?

Clevs · 19/08/2022 22:15

Was just going to suggest a stable door. Keep the bottom half shut so you can't see the toilet but open the top half so the breeze still comes through.

kittybloom · 19/08/2022 22:19

I wouldn’t like it. I would suggest shuttered sliding door

XenoBitch · 19/08/2022 22:22

Can you not sit in a different direction to the lav? Surely you can sit somewhere that does not have you facing it?

figmaofmyimagination · 19/08/2022 22:24

What?? Jesus, no. Close the toilet door while you’re eating 😖

starfishmummy · 19/08/2022 22:29

Get a carpenter to make a stable type door but one which is high enough at the bottom to hide the loo.

1000umbrellas · 19/08/2022 22:31

This wouldn't work if the loo is tiny, but my parents had similar and they divided the room into two so from the kitchen you're looking into a utility rather than the loo beyond.

fufflecake · 19/08/2022 22:32

Just shut the door

Flamingoose · 19/08/2022 22:32

I feel the same way about out ensuite in the bedroom. I don't want to see the lav when I'm in bed!

Sally872 · 19/08/2022 22:58

Surely there must he a seat at the table facing another direction?

I would say door closed usually, but cool air more important if hot day.

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 19/08/2022 23:24

Sally872 · 19/08/2022 22:58

Surely there must he a seat at the table facing another direction?

I would say door closed usually, but cool air more important if hot day.

Did you read the OP?

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