I’m mid 30’s recently out of a long relationship. Bored one night I downloaded a dating app to ‘window shop’ - a lovely guy messaged me, we hit it off and texted very frequently then met up for 2 coffee dates.
Both went well and he seemed really keen and il be honest it was really lovely being fancied and desired after such a long time.
Any we slept together on the 3rd date - I know!! - but it was lovely and he was really kind etc messaged me after saying it was amazing l, can’t wait to see you etc that was 4 days ago.
since then he has gone cold -still texting but not the same and avoiding the question (once asked) about another date.
Today I told him I didn’t want to be messed about so it he wasn’t interested to just say and it was fine, his reply -‘I’m 100% all in - we have a lot more to experience together’
I replied ‘what do you have in mind?’
now nothing for about 5 hours and he has read the message!!
very new to the dating scene so if this ok? Or would he be more keen? I’m not about to be messed about so shall I put him in the bin or give him a chance?