Social media stalking????

[Discoqueen18]

So i've recently told my partner things are over between us due to how he treats me which i can't take anymore. We are still in the house together as we have a child while i sort out a place for me and my child. Today he hasn't gone to work and sat in the house all day watching what i'm doing and this evening he has tried hacking into my social media accounts and cancelled my netflix. What would others do in this situation?

Leave

Who owns the house?

Do you work? Do you have savings you can access?

Who’s house is it? Owned or rented?

I’d make sure all my accounts were locked down with 2FA, and change my passcodes for phone etc.

House is in both our names. I work part time and have no savings

Is the house bought or rented? If owned, are you joint tenants, or tenants in common?

Why are you leaving if you’re name is on the house?

I take it you’re not married so won’t have any claim to any household savings etc.

Can you start working full time asap?

The house is bought. He won't go so i don't know what else to do. I can't work full time because of childcare

Tell him that attempting to hack an account is illegal and call your local police station to report it. This is where the threats and intimidation are clearly starting: be safe and document everything.

Is there much equity in the house?

Did you put more than half towards the deposit and, if so, was it protected?

Is there a risk to your child that would prevent 50/50 being an option? That would allow you to work and you’d only be paying childcare for your share of time.

Tell him either he stops this and moves out or you'll contact the police.

I paid the bigger share of the deposit. He wouldn't do 50/50 as he's 'too busy' playing/watching football and going to thr gym. Do you think the police would take this seriously?

Yes, they will take this seriously. He’s already committed a criminal offence. How are you doing, OP?

Genuinely question and not being goady, but what crime has he committed?

He sounds like an utter prick but is sitting in your own house for the day and looking at the other person a crime?

Is trying and failing to log-in to someone’s FB a crime?