AIBU to feel annoyed that my partner has been discussing my finances with his family? The only reason I found out is because he was speaking with them that I should try get an increase and decided he would then tell me how they came up with a solution. I am happy with my income and want as little stress possible.
We are planning on moving in together soon and I don’t earn much compared to him, he earns 3 times more but whatever I do have I will contribute my half towards our bills like I have done from the beginning of our relationship four our activities, outings, breaks away etc.
I’m a firm believer in finances remaining private unless disclosed to said person but anywhere beyond that I feel they shouldn’t be discussed if they wish to keep it private. AIBU? I would never talk about anyones finances to anyone else if they disclosed it