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boymum1xx · 16/08/2022 11:40

Hi.
I currently feel at the lowest I've felt in such a long time. I'm living at my mother in law's with my partner, son and brother in laws, 300 miles away from my family. I have my partner in my ear 24/7 having ago and snapping at me for absolutely no reason witch is mentally breaking me. Im constantly picking up after the 3 other men that live in this house, I work 4 nights a week, look after my son and take him to his appointments because he has arfid. I forget to eat 5 out of the 7 days a week. My partner lives his life like he has no responsibility's, going out whenever he wants leaving everything to me, and doesn't seem to be in any rush to work and blames it on the fact he doesn't drive. My hair and eyelashes are falling out in clumps due to stress. Not private estate agent will accept me and the council are I'm not hurry to help house me.

I'm sorry for ranting I'm just struggling to cope and have not one else to talk to, my problem is I do to much for others and put everyone else first before myself. They all know I'm soft and they most certainly take advantage of that.

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backupplan1 · 16/08/2022 11:46

I'm sorry to read this OP.
Could you go back home and stay with a family member until you get some temporary accommodation?
Or you could take your son and go to the local council and sit there until they help you!! Tell them you have absolutely nowhere to go.
They will have to help, even if it's just a temporary BnB they put you in, until they have a more suitable accommodation to put you in.
Things won't change unless you make that first move.
My son has Afrid and that's hard enough to deal with alone.
I really hope you can find a way to get rehoused.
You've got this OP Flowers

boymum1xx · 16/08/2022 12:16

backupplan1 · 16/08/2022 11:46

I'm sorry to read this OP.
Could you go back home and stay with a family member until you get some temporary accommodation?
Or you could take your son and go to the local council and sit there until they help you!! Tell them you have absolutely nowhere to go.
They will have to help, even if it's just a temporary BnB they put you in, until they have a more suitable accommodation to put you in.
Things won't change unless you make that first move.
My son has Afrid and that's hard enough to deal with alone.
I really hope you can find a way to get rehoused.
You've got this OP Flowers

I'm closer to his family than I am my own unfortunately, his mum is always on my side but she's never here and always at her partner's house, the council keep saying if I leave I'll be making myself intentionally homeless. Usually I'm quite strong minded but recently I'm starting to crack, all the pressure is always on me to work to look after the house and to look after my son at the same time, and yet I've always seem to have done something wrong in my partners eyes, I'll be okay I just need to think for me and my son and not everyone else for once x

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