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AIBU to make a formal complaint about this?

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Hottt · 16/08/2022 09:28

Last June, I suddenly fell ill and an ambulance was called. For the record, I'm mid-20s, previously healthy, healthy weight, non-smoker, I don't drink - nothing that should indicate any likelihood of falling ill, and nothing I can change to improve my health without medical support/input. I even ran a marathon less than a year earlier. I had an abnormal ECG when the paramedics arrived and I was taken to hospital. I spent two weeks in hospital, very unwell but with nothing actually done. I was discharged with a cardiology referral. Since then, I've had strange cardiac episodes that I'd never, ever had before. These tend to involve my heart rate shooting up (c.200bpm) and my blood pressure either shooting up too or dropping really low (to the point that I pass out). It's accompanied by severe chest pain and breathlessness. Sometimes these will happen multiple times in a day and sometimes I'll go a few weeks without one. There's no pattern or trigger that I can determine (no associated foods or activities, different times of the day, no issue with sleep, no correlation with blood sugar levels etc). Not to sound dramatic but I'm scared that I'm going to die.

Here's my AIBU, the cardiology department have been completely non-existent (to the point that I'm unsure if they even exist) and I feel like I should make a complaint, but I know the NHS is under strain and don't want to be that person.

From June through to December, I was waiting for my cardiology referral. My initial letter (the only letter I've received) said there would be a 26-30 week wait. My GP said that cardiology referrals often "slip through the net" so that I should make sure I chase it and a paramedic that came out said that "with cardiology, the squeaky wheel gets the oil" so I phoned a few times after June to check the status of my referral. No one answered the phone on any occasion that I phoned and no one returned my calls when I left a voicemail.

  • At the start of December, my GP expedited my referral to a two week wait. After two weeks with nothing from cardiology, I began phoning. As above, no answer and no returned calls.
  • At the start of January, I contacted PALS, who contacted cardiology and said that cardiology didn't have my expedited referral and I'm still on the standard waiting list. I phoned my GP who re-issused the expedited referral.
  • At the start of February, with still no ability to contact cardiology directly (no email address, not allowed to go in person due to Covid and no one answering the phone), I contacted PALS again. Again, I was told they hadn't received an expedited referral. So, I spoke to my GP again and they made the referral again. At this point, I don't know whether the GP is messing up or the cardiology department is messing up.
  • Two weeks later (mid-February), I've still heard nothing from cardiology (and still no one answering the phone or returning calls) so I contact PALS again. I get the same response that cardiology have not received my expedited referral. I contact my GP who sends an email which shows the referral was made and cc's in me and PALS. Within two hours, PALS responded that cardiology have now located my expedited referral (how convenient).
  • In mid-March, I was sent a letter with an appointment at the end of May.
  • A week before the appointment, my appointment was cancelled "due to Covid". Since then, I've been on the expedited referral waiting list. Cardiology have never, ever answered their phone - I've tried different times of day, going through the switchboard, phoning the number directly etc - they will not answer, and they never, ever return the call when I leave a message.
  • Two weeks ago, PALS went from saying that I just need to keep waiting to saying that I'm no longer on the expedited waiting list and I'm back on the standard waiting list (this hadn't been communicated to me or to my GP). When I asked why, PALS said that a consultant had made the decision. When I asked how and why they'd made that decision, PALS said the consultant would contact me directly to explain the decision.
  • It's been over two weeks and they haven't contacted me.
AIBU to make a formal complaint or is this just what the NHS is like now? If it makes any difference at all, if I paid hundreds of pounds (that I don't have), the consultants have availability to see me this week.
OP posts:
mumda · 18/10/2022 21:49

It sounds like there are failures and shortcomings in their procedures which need urgent rectification.

Riverlee · 18/10/2022 21:53

It’s not unusual for a doctor to send an urgent referral, and for the consultant to deem it as routine.

However, this mismanagement you’ve had isn’t acceptable,

ChampagneLassie · 18/10/2022 22:02

I'd find money to go private. Better in debt than dead. Sorry you've had such a shocking experience though and do complain too.

Mistymountain · 18/10/2022 22:04

People say just call! They don't understand - no one picks up the phone. I've been trying to contact oncology about my brain tumour and it just rings out. It's a complete joke.

longtompot · 18/10/2022 22:33

Hottt · 18/10/2022 19:14

Just wanted to update on this. Last week, I finally got an appointment and had a 24 hour ECG and telephone call with the cardiologist which I thought went ok. However, I got my summary letter of the appointment through in the post today and the cardiologist has stated that they believe my symptoms and the abnormalities on the 24 hour ECG were caused by pregnancy and so not of concern. But I wasn't pregnant - and I'm not pregnant now!! When I got to the hospital on the very first day (June 2021), they asked if I could be pregnant and I told them no. They asked if I was using contraception, I told them we were using condoms, they made me do a pregnancy test - negative. They also said the blood tests from September 2022 showed X, Y and Z but I didn't have a blood test then (or even close to then) and they said I attended A&E with these symptoms this month which also isn't true. I'm moving house so I'll just go to my new GP and get a new referral to a new cardiologist. These people have no intention of helping me.

I hope you get better treatment at your new place but I really wouldn't let this go. This is disgraceful treatment by people who are meant to help you. Is there anything above PALS, as if there is I would take it to them.
My dh has had treatment for high cholesterol not due to diet but a genetic thing which has resulted in him being fitted with stents after having angina attacks in his mid 40s. He has had letters, abrupt ones, about him missing appointments and in other letters stating about him being an ex smoker which he isn't, he's never been a smoker. Turns out there is someone else with his name and they were sending letters to the wrong person! All sorted now thankfully, but I am not sure how it happened given we all have a hospital number and a NHS number. Obviously this isn't what has happened to you.
Have you tried phoning the hospital switchboard and asking to be put through to the cardiac unit? I have had to do this when trying to get through to a dept at our local hospital and it turned out the phone the secretary was using wasn't even on as it was a SIPS phone and she had taken it home😳

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