So I picked up my dd age 18 from our local this evening, she had been there with her friends, a mix of boys and girls and her b/f, and she was in a bad way, floods of tears - turns out when she was coming back from toilet, which is down a little corridor, a guy, she thinks he was about 60, grabbed her, and well it sounds like sexual assault - he grabbed her bum, and pushed her up against the wall and she was pushing him to get off of her, but he wouldn't move and was really strong, but eventually he stumbled a bit and she was able to push him off of her, and as she ducked out he grabbed her tits really hard, and luckily she was able to run off. She told her friends what happened, and then she texted me to pick her up. I said we should tell the bar staff what happened, maybe there is cctv, or police, but she was in shock and just freaked out when I said that so I brought her home and she's had some tea and sugar. I'm so angry - as well as upset for my beautiful dd - WWYD - I was going to go down there tomorrow and see if they do have cctv - I was going to ask would they ban him. I mean, it is her local and she goes there a lot - how unfair is it that she has to watch out for him now, and maybe he will be there again. Anyone any experience - she has been seeing a counsellor for other things, so I'm going to arrange an extra session - am I right in thinking that this will stay with her for a long time, probably forever. Bastard creep. How dare he. I swear it's getting worse. Stupid thing is she always goes to the toilet with a friend, or her b/f goes with her and waits for her. She said she didn't even think, just that some of the friends had gone outside, and she said she was just popping to the loo. I swear to god, women have to be so f aware all the time - do a 'risk assessment' before going to the toilet. I really don't think it was as bad when I was young. Unless I was just very lucky. Feel sick. And relieved she got away. She was terrified he would drag her into the toilets - -there just happened to be nobody around at that moment.