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AIBU?

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To be annoyed by people who speak (or type) like this?

552 replies

Scaredypup · 14/08/2022 20:14

Happy to be told iabu if it’s a regional thing, but I’ve only seen it on here and it drives me mad. I’ll try and write some examples..

”My dog needed fed” or maybe it’s “needs fed”

I don’t know, I actually can’t think of any examples because it doesn’t come naturally to me.

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LidFlipper · 14/08/2022 20:16

I hate it too.

Coughee · 14/08/2022 20:16

It's a Scottish thing so yabu. I'd never come across it before seeing it in here either

ICouldHaveCheckedFirst · 14/08/2022 20:17

It's normal speech pattern in Scotland. So YABU.

girlmom21 · 14/08/2022 20:18

I don't mind it if it's colloquial but it's irritating when people who don't normally do it try to be funny, like "did ye, aye"

CruCru · 14/08/2022 20:18

I only see it when someone wants to sell a dodgy sofa for more than it’s worth - somehow putting “Needs gone” doesn’t make people want to put offers on.

CapMarvel · 14/08/2022 20:18

I say "the cat is needing fed" as do most people in this neck of the woods.

Honestly if it annoys you IDGAF.

museumum · 14/08/2022 20:19

I’m from edinburgh which is an area of very anglicised speech patterns and I lived a decade in London but I still find “needs fed” or “needed fed” totally normal and unremarkable.

KateRusby · 14/08/2022 20:19

I'm fairly well spoken (Scottish) but didn't realise this was dialectal until an English university friend pointed it out. The English version sounds really jarring to me.

IcedOatLatte · 14/08/2022 20:20

This gets asked about loads on here. It grates on me as I read it as it's so unnatura and uneducated l to my ears. I don't hear it in real conversation, maybe there is a disproportinate number of Scottish posters

IceStationZebra · 14/08/2022 20:21

It’s a Scottish construction, but I agree it looks so odd written down

Nobotoxno · 14/08/2022 20:21

Yes it is regional - Scottish.

"Needs feeding" sounds "wrong" to me though I know it's just dialect too!

SirChenjins · 14/08/2022 20:21

Perfectly normal up here 🤷‍♀️ It’s a regional thing, if that helps with your irritation.

CarlCarlson · 14/08/2022 20:21

YABU

No doubt you’re a pretentious middle class Hooray Henry/Hyacinth from the Home Counties who votes tory

Coffeekam · 14/08/2022 20:22

Totally normal speech where I live. Didn’t realise it was regional. What’s the alternative? Needs to be fed?

Topgub · 14/08/2022 20:22

Draw instead of drawer or brought instead of bought are much worse

Needs fed makes perfect sense

Topgub · 14/08/2022 20:23

@CarlCarlson

🤣🤣

IcedOatLatte · 14/08/2022 20:25

Coffeekam · 14/08/2022 20:22

Totally normal speech where I live. Didn’t realise it was regional. What’s the alternative? Needs to be fed?

Exactly, needs to be fed is correct English

DashboardConfessional · 14/08/2022 20:25

It's just a contraction, missing out "to be".

Mixed up use of tenses doesn't bother me UNLESS it's... "Should have went". Or worse, "should of went".

TheGraceFace · 14/08/2022 20:34

I’m wanting’s another scot thing.

I went for a lay down. I’d say it’s yet another American mispronunciation.

Goldenbear · 14/08/2022 20:37

What??

TheCutter · 14/08/2022 20:38

CarlCarlson · 14/08/2022 20:21

YABU

No doubt you’re a pretentious middle class Hooray Henry/Hyacinth from the Home Counties who votes tory

Looking down on us working class Scots for speaking incorrectly 🙄

surreygirl1987 · 14/08/2022 20:39

Never heard that!

HinchcliffeandMurgatroyd · 14/08/2022 20:40

I’ve picked it up a bit from my Scottish ex, but it still looks jarring in writing, without the accent as context, which is OFC, totally unreasonable.

HinchcliffeandMurgatroyd · 14/08/2022 20:41

Outwith is an amazingly useful Scottish word OP. Borrow that to console yourself. 😉

Minniem2020 · 14/08/2022 20:44

I'm England but on the Scottish border and it's normal here too.